NateTG said:
That's still false.
Consider, for example f(x,y) is 2^{-x!-y!} if y>x and 0 otherwise. Both sums are absolutely convergent, but the LHS is non-zero, and the RHS is zero.
The RHS is not zero. Take the p=1 term, it's f(0,1)+f(1,0), one of these is non-zero. (Maybe you missed where I changed f(p,p-q) to f(q,p-q))
You can think of the double sum as a sum over the integer lattice (n,m) where n and m are >=0. The LHS sums along infinite vertical lines (e.g. (0,0), (0,1), (0,2),...) then sums the results. My version sums along the lines with slope -1 (the lines m+n=p), then sums the results. James version looks to sum everything under the line y=x say (though I'd expect it was a typo).
Your version
\sum_{n=0}^{\infty}\sum_{m=0}^{\infty}f(m,n)=\sum_ {k=0}^{\infty}\sum_{m>0,n>0,m+n=k}f(m,n)
is the same as mine except you seem to be missing all points where one of n or m is zero. If you meant for n and m to be >= to zero instead of just >0, then it's the same as mine (take k=p, m=q)