I was asking for an explanation of how you use the word. For that you don't need my explanation.
Ok, I will try to explain it. First, of course the word is used in different ways depending on the context. For example it is used in mathematics all the time as in there exist a solution to the equation, there doesn't exist a group with such and such properties and so on. I am talking only in the context of physics. So something exists if it interacts with other things, it can affect them and it can be affected, and it is objective i.e. it is not an abstract mental construct. For example if you study heat in a metal rod, the rod exists. On the other hand if you analyse the heat equation in a certain way, separate variables, Fourier and so on you may talk about an infinite number of harmonic oscillators. Those do not exist. They are part of the map not the territory. And the distinction is important to me when the discussion has a more philosophical nature. Another example, particles exists, they bump into each other and can affect other things. Their positions on the other hand are a prat of the model, of the description. We may use a different, although equivalent mathematically and empirically, model that doesn't use positions.
So, my question is what is the meaning of exists when you apply it to position and the wave function?