I focus on the points made here again, if you get an "up" spin, the only thing you know is that the other person, if they make a measurement, will get a "down" spin.
The "if" is important here. You don't know whether he/she will measure it, all you know is that his/her measurement must yield down. This is no more different than knowing if the Earth explodes, i'll die right now.
The thing is, you cannot control what spin you get (you can't control the other person's measurement either), you either get up or down and you wouldn't even know who measures the state first, if the other measurer actually measures it, or if the measurer is alive. You have no information about what's going on on the other side. All you have is a "if" this happens, you can make a prediction. The "information" you speak of is simply correlation. You can only confirm such correlation after both measures have a meeting and compare their results. In fact, you can't even be sure if the particle was entangled until you have this meeting.
Also, thinking of relativity, you could boost to a frame where measurer A performs the experiment first and then to another frame where measurer B performs the experiment first. The quantum mechanical explanation is the same. You could say measurer B forces measurer A's result, or measurer A forces measurer B's result, either way is consistent with QM and relativity. Relativity says that causality must not be violated, and indeed in this situation, both explanations yield the same result (either A causes B or B causes A).