Whew! It took most of my afternoon to read this thread and all it's references. This new experimental evidence collected by way of weak measurment Answers many of the questions here.
See:
http://www.physorg.com/news/2011-06-quantum-physics-photons-two-slit-interferometer.html
After reading this carefully, I come to the conclusion that we cannot claim that nothing is happening here between emmision of the photon and the reception of it but the statistical math.
Here is a quote: Our measured trajectories are consistent, as Wiseman had predicted, with the realistic but unconventional interpretation of quantum mechanics of such influential thinkers as David Bohm and Louis de Broglie," said Steinberg.
The article continues: The original double-slit experiment played a central role in the early development of quantum mechanics, leading directly to Bohr's formulation of the principle of complementarity. Complementarity states that observing particle-like or wave-like behaviour in the double-slit experiment depends on the type of measurement made: the system cannot behave as both a particle and wave simultaneously. Steinberg's recent experiment suggests this doesn't have to be the case: the system can behave as both.
"By applying a modern measurement technique to the historic double-slit experiment, we were able to observe the average particle trajectories undergoing wave-like interference, which is the first observation of its kind. This result should contribute to the ongoing debate over the various interpretations of quantum theory," said Steinberg. "It shows that long-neglected questions about the different types of measurement possible in quantum mechanics can finally be addressed in the lab, and weak measurements such as the sort we use in this work may prove crucial in studying all sorts of new phenomena.
"But mostly, we are all just thrilled to be able to see, in some sense, what a photon does as it goes through an interferometer, something all of our textbooks and professors had always told us was impossible."
In this poster's opinion, it's unfortunate that a simpler and more conventional result was not found, but the results are undeniable. The "matter probability wave" or whatever you wish to call it, interferes with itself, guiding the particle into the interference pattern location recorded in the classic double slit experiment.
In the end, the Copernican principle holds sway, and the Universe does not exist only because humans are here to observe it. Nor does the entire universe split in two every time a leaf falls face up or face down on the ground.
There are no hidden variables and the ontology is clear. The Universe exists whether we observe it or not. Our difficulty in observing it is a simple matter of the thermodynamics as explained by Luis de Broglie's famous formula Action/h=-entropy/k. You just can't move information from a particle to it's surrounding environment without effecting the entropy of the particle-measurement system.
Whether the wave structure of matter is in fact a standing wave, as proposed by de Borglie, a spherical in and out wave as proposed by Feynman's PHD thesis, or simply a scaler wave as proposed by Wolf, it's becomming more obvious by the second, our insistence on viewing matter as a solid particle has held quantum physics hostage and created almost intractable measurement problems for nearly 80 years.
Now, finally, we seem to be emerging from a very long and very dark tunnel. Quantum wave physics and special relativility can unite in a form like E=hf=mc^2 and we can finally move forward again.
My advice, as distasteful as it may seem, brush up on your French.
Of course, the above just my own humble opinion.