Ryoko said:
So everybody is thinking every one else's clock is the slow one. How is this resolved?
This sounds paradoxical, but the paradox goes away if you think carefully about exactly what it means to say that one clock is running slower than another, and remember the relativity of simultaneity.
Suppose the hands of both clocks point to noon
at the same time (and of course we'll call that time "noon"). I watch one of the clocks until its hands point to 1:00 PM, and then ask where the hands of the other clock are pointing
at that moment. If the hands of the other clock are pointing to 1:00 PM
at the the same time that the hands of my clock are pointing to 1:00 PM, I'll say that the two clocks are running at the same rate. If they point to somewhere before 1:00 PM, I'll say that the other clock is running slow, and if they point somewhere after 1:00 PM I'll say that the other clock is running fast.
Note the bolded text above - this entire concept of one clock being slower or faster than another depends on everyone agreeing about what is and is not happening
at the same time.
Because of the relativity of simultaneity, events that happen at the same time for one observer do not necessarily happen at the same time for another. In this case, if the two clocks are moving relative to one another, I may say that at the same time that my clock reads 1:00 PM the other clock reads 12:55 PM so is running slow. However, it does not follow that the other observer will say that my clock reads 1:00 PM at the same time that his clock reads 12:55 PM; instead and because of the relativity of simultaneity, he may say that at the same time that his clock reads 12:55 PM my clock reads 12:50 PM and therefore my clock is running slow relative to his.
We're both right, because things that are "at the same time" for one of us are not necessarily "at the same time" for the other.