Of course impedance matching is important, but I think that's another subject entirely. Your point that it different applications you focus more on either time-domain or frequency measure is taken.
It has everything to do with data link that we are talking about. You have to whole transmission line interface to deal with in a link. Even in the transceiver, the input and output is not ideal at very high frequency. You don't take for granted that the output and input remain ideal impedance. Just look at the S parameters of any transistors, they are nowhere ideal that output is low impedance or 50Ω, input is nowhere close to high impedance or 50Ω. This is just the nature of the game. That is where the whole world of RF come into play. If you don't have perfect impedance, you are going to have reflection on the line and all the bandwidth in the world become irrelevant as you cannot settle on time to be sampled.
Back to the original point about BW vs what I was talking about the rise time and settling time. No matter what kind of modulation scheme, unless something totally new since I left the electronic field, it is all about settling to a stable level so the receiver comparator can reliably sample the level. That involve a transmission that don't have reflection, transceiver circuit don't have ringing, don't have impedance mismatch that can change the level. Just BW alone don't guarantee any of this.The trend in analog RF is for wideband systems so we don't have the luxury of narrowband matching so much anymore.
I don't think so, all the microwave involved in cell phone, 802...all are narrow band. They are totally different from what you are working on.
Wideband matching is pretty easy in LVDS because it is so low frequency you can use resistors for matching, they are super wideband.
LVDS and ECL are limited frequency, in my days, I think they ran out of steam about 2.5GHz, matching those are piece of cake. For short distance like a few inches, you can even get away with FR4.