Well, I think there's a lot of confusion in this thread. In my opinion it doesn't make any sense to talk about "shape" of an elementary particle in the context of QT. As this is about relativistic QT the best and even oversuccessful model is the Standard Model of elementary particles based on local relativistic QFT. "Elementary particle" is here defined in a quite abstract way by the single-particle Fock states of a local irreducible unitary representation of (a covering) of the proper orthochronous Poincare group.
As was stressed already in one posting above, nothing makes sense in physics, if you can't define it in terms of how to observe/measure it in the lab. We observe particles with several detectors. For the very general question posed here, it's sufficient to discuss one simple possibility. So take a charged elementary particle (like an electron). It can be detected by a photo plate. If the electron hits the plate it leaves a single spot at some position, which is not determined before but we know, given the usual setup of a particle collider, where one prepares particles with rather well defined momentum (and thus also energy), a probability distribution for the position of the particle, where it hits the photo plate. Any single electron will make a spot at a position that is determined with some uncertainty, roughly given by the grain size of the photo plate. That's it. There's nothing defining a "shape" in any sense. All you can see in a microscope is the shape of the grain of your photo plate. You may use other, more modern ways to detect the particle like a CCD camera or an electromagnetic calorimeter. So here the "shape" of a "pixel" varies arbitrarily, dependent on the specific setup of the detector, but all this doesn't determine anything about the elementary particle under investigation but only about the detectors used to observe it.
So it's pretty clear that an elementary particle, as we define them today, has nothing observable that can be identified as any kind of "shape" in the usual sense of what we understand by this notion in the macroscopic world. An elementary particle is identified by its mass, spin, and various charges describing how it interacts via the fundamental interactions described by the Standard Model (strong and electroweak forces). There's not more we know about them, and that's all we can observe today.