Topher925 said:
Engineers aren't cool, actually quite the opposite. Prepare to get beaten up on the playground and get used to never having a date.
In junior high & high school, that happened to me. Beaten up on playground in junior high, few & far between dates in HS. I was very very much one of the premium "class nerds". My theory goes like this.
Getting through engr college (full engr, not tech/trade/vocational type curricula) requires natural ability & long hours of hard work. Even a bright student does not "coast through" engr college. Students that are very popular & good looking have a lot of options socially. Joe quarterback & Suzy cheerleader are smothered w/ attention 24/7/365. Young people love to have a gf/bf. Even though they know it consumes time, they feel they can balance their limited time. Going out on dates on a steady basis sure beats always having to hunt & scrounge for a date.
The cool ones have these options & eventually their time is spent having a good time, & studying usually (not always, there are exceptions) suffers. As a result, I don't remember Joe & Suzy graduating from engr college. But Myron Nerd, Phil Dweeb, & Judy Geek didn't have those many options. They got occasional dates, & if their luck was really strong, an occasional second date. I did go out, but to a limited degree. Get this.
I went steady for the first time when I was - hold on -
22 years old! That's not a misprint. My 1st steady gf happened at age 22! Embarrassing as it is to admit, I'll bet some of you reading this had similar history. It's ok. I'm Joe Average, I am not Brad Pitt. Whether I like it or not, that's the way it is, I've accepted it & made peace with it. I believe that this helped get me through engr college & grad school as well.
Most of my engr fellow classmates had limited success with dating. One guy in our class was really popular. He flunked out, got re-admitted, & barely graduated, at the bottom of the class. There is truth to the nerdish stereotyping of engrs. I have natural math & science ability for sure, but that alone did not get me through. I studied for sure, but would I have studied if I had Cheryl Tiegs or Farrah Fawcett walking arm in arm with me on campus? I think not.
Am I crazy, spot on, or in between? Comments are welcome.