iamalexalright said:
Thanks for your input Hurkyl and ehild.
I know you are not berating me and I see your point - the reason I ask is because I am unfamiliar with
writing proofs!
Now I know it is sufficient to provide a counterexample (for some silly reason in my mind I find that not rigorous enough... but who am I to judge that? heh).
Instead of the long chain of equations(which you two agree is non-professional), what would you have me do instead (and I don't necessarily mean in regards to this problem)?
Well, I also prefer your derivation instead of using a simple counter-example, but Hurkyl is right, it would have been enough. Anyway, you presented correctly that the given procedure contradicts the first requirement of being a norm. You could have proceeded a little further after that last two expressions
a|x|+a^2 y^2
and
a|x| + ay^2
saying that two linear combinations of independent quantities can be equivalent only if all coefficients agree in both expressions.
Instead of using a long chain when you prove something, just write the equations under each other, and use some explanatory text, refer to the definition, theorems, laws if needed. Do so if you write a thesis, or paper, or you explain it at a lecture in front of students

For me, here on the Forum, that chain was OK, I do the same chains when I derive something for myself. I like big sheets of paper with enough place for chains. And I also forget about counter-examples and use it only when I can not prove something in a "nicer" way. But I am not a Mathematician.
And it was useful that you did this derivation. You can proceed on the same way if you need to prove that something
is a norm. For that, it is not enough to show one example. ehild