What do 'nerdy' guys like in girls?

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The discussion centers around the qualities that 'nerdy' boys find attractive in girls, with participants sharing their experiences and preferences. Many express that intelligence, a sense of humor, and kindness are key traits they admire. There's a consensus that nerdy guys often appreciate directness and are more likely to respond positively when approached by girls. Some participants mention that physical appearance becomes less important compared to personality traits as intelligence increases. A recurring theme is the desire for mutual interests, with some emphasizing the importance of ambition and open-mindedness. The conversation also touches on the challenges nerdy boys face in dating due to shyness and social skills, with advice suggesting that girls should show interest and engage in conversations about shared interests. Overall, the thread highlights a blend of humor and earnestness in exploring what nerdy boys seek in potential partners.
  • #61
mcknia07 said:
Why am I ignoring that advise? I don't get it.

I meant the advice in the quote. >.<
 
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  • #62
Ahh, gotcha...blonde moment, sorry:blushing: But still, why only me? lol
 
  • #63
Lol, fine!
 
  • #64
I like someone who:

Is passionate about their study
Goal Oriented
Nice but not too nice(really nice people get on my nerves:mad:)
Cares about health and works out(nice body)
Has common interests, but differences can make a relationship interesting
Likes the outdoors
NOT CLINGY!

Bonus:
Does not mind an open relationship :biggrin:
Gets aroused by physics and maths?
:smile::smile:
 
  • #65
Newspeak said:
I like someone who:

Is passionate about their study
Goal Oriented
Nice but not too nice(really nice people get on my nerves:mad:)
Cares about health and works out(nice body)
Has common interests, but differences can make a relationship interesting
Likes the outdoors
NOT CLINGY!

Bonus:
Does not mind an open relationship :biggrin:
Gets aroused by physics and maths?
:smile::smile:

I totally go with that, especially the "sexually aroused by physics" part
 
  • #66
Oh men...:smile: can't live with 'em...and sure as heck can't live without them
 
  • #67
mcknia07 said:
Oh men...:smile: can't live with 'em...and sure as heck can't live without them
Oh common, my list isn't that unreasonable...except the last two:smile:
 
  • #68
Well...ok, I'll give you that little bit. :biggrin:
 
  • #69
I like a woman that cooks and cleans and knows her place.
 
  • #70
And let me guess, you want her to wear a pretty little dress and heels to do those things too
 
  • #71
Cyrus said:
I like a woman that cooks and cleans and knows her place.
Cyrus, that is funny in a terrible way.:smile:
 
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  • #73
You don't know him yet Newspeak, lol.
 
  • #74
Oh my goodness, and yet being a woman, I think it's hilarious!
 
  • #75
mcknia07 said:
Oh my goodness, and yet being a woman, I think it's hilarious!
Thank God, I thought I was going to get banned there for a second.:eek:
Forgive me mcknia07
 
  • #76
mcknia07 said:
And let me guess, you want her to wear a pretty little dress and heels to do those things too

Just heels. Nothing else but heels.
 
  • #77
Ah, I have no banning powers here, well not YET anyways :biggrin:
 
  • #78
Cyrus said:
Just heels. Nothing else but heels.

Oh ok, that's not so bad, you aren't asking for too much...
 
  • #79
mcknia07 said:
Oh ok, that's not so bad, you aren't asking for too much...

Exactly, give a woman an inch and then they want a mile...
 
  • #80
Geshh, what more could they want...
 
  • #81
mcknia07 said:
Geshh, what more could they want...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oQaSpaKGY2I&feature=related
 
  • #82
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Avsp_UJ3mrY

now THAT's A WIFE!

Whats great, I was having dinner with some friends when some old people were at the table next to us. The lady (In her 70s) was saying "back in my dayyy, they didnt let us girls wear pants. We had to wear dresses or skirts".

HAHAAHH, I wanted to hug her and say ahhhhhhh the good ole days.
 
  • #83
Well, I guess that would come in hand, instead of the 'ol washboard you have lying around.
 
  • #84
Ahh, the life it would have been to live back in the old days. I wouldn't mind, actually, wearing dresses and skirts all the time. But that's about the only good part...

I can see the wheels turning and an alliance starting to form...
 
  • #85
:smile::smile: Good stuff Cyrus.
 
  • #86
don't forget this classic. and cyrus makes a good point. i could care less if a woman is a science nerd. in fact, it might be better if she were an art nerd. intelligence is important, but not nearly as important as women might wish. in fact, they've got a lot less variability in IQ than males. warmth and affection are more important. looks are important. outward signs of fertility are important, like waist to hips ratio (don't be a fatty) and youth.

http://www.insureitrite.com/Good%20WIfe%20Housekeeping%201955.gif
 
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  • #87
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  • #88
Oh my god, you guys are killing me!:smile::smile:
I can see why women dislike us.
I think we have strayed off topic too far.:smile:
 
  • #89
Nope, still pretty much on topic from what I can tell. Since us girls do want to know what you fellows want...
 
  • #90
Poor MissSilvy. Her lovely thread innocently asking what a nerd wants has been turned into a torrent of chauvinism. :rolleyes:
 

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