The discussion centers on whether gravity bends space itself or merely our perception of it, particularly in relation to light. It highlights that General Relativity (GR) provides the best explanation for gravity's effects, asserting that gravity influences the behavior of space as matter and energy move through it. Observable consequences of this deformation include non-Euclidean geometry, such as triangles whose angles do not sum to 180 degrees and the bending of light paths. The conversation also touches on the distinction between physical reality and perception, suggesting that philosophical inquiries might be more appropriate for such discussions. Ultimately, the thread concludes with a decision to close the discussion due to escalating tensions.