MissSilvy said:
If you were even literate in the subject, you'd know that there have been about a thousand studies done ON THIS EXACT TOPIC! I hate to break it to you, but your 'theory' is not new, very interesting, supported by anything but anecdotes and conjectures or well-thought out.
Remember, I didn't say it was new. I said that it's been studied by many independently and is in quite a few scientific/academic peer-review journals, and so can it just be ignored without having another explanation? How do you explain all the scientific/academic peer-review journal articles at the bottom, which methodologies can be reviewed by other experts (not anecdotes but has been replicated)? If there's a control group and an experimental group, can you explain how that is not using the Scientific Method? If something makes predictions and uses the null hypothesis, then what is that? Keep in mind it's not one body language behavior, that's not how body language works, but rather multiple ones and within the context of the situation.
As far as the Scientific Method, don't you first make observations, then an explanation/rules, then experiments to test? So for the observation part, if multiple independent researchers put cameras up at singles events and then into scientific/academic peer-review journals where other experts can review, how would you explain to us that not being verifiable? Then if they have some women use some of those body language on men in public and others using something not those behaviors to see how the independent variable affects the dependent variable of whether the man approaches the lady how is that not experimentation in peer-review journal (even if it isn't as controlled as Physics experiments)? How do you explain it beating the null hypothesis? Then if in a lab they have women stay in a room one on one with a man, while filming body language behind a one way mirror, and then asking her afterward to rate how attracted she felt to the man, how do you explain if some of the non-verbal behaviors beat the null and appear to be associated with her rating of the man? How is that not making data falsifiable?
If it doesn't follow the Scientific Method, then maybe you can explain these? :
Walsh, D. G., & Hewitt, J. (1985). Giving men the come-on: Effect of eye contact and smiling in a bar environment. Perceptual and Motor Skills, 61, 873-874. (an experiment)
Moore, M.M. (1985) "Nonverbal Courtship Patterns in Women: Context and Consequences." Ethology and Sociobiology, 6:237-247.
Moore, M. M., & Butler, D. L. (1989). Predictive aspects of nonverbal courtship behavior in women. Semiotica, 3, 205-215.
Moore, Monica (1995). "Courtship Signaling and Adolescents: 'Girls Just Wanna Have Fun'?". The Journal of Sex Research, 32(4), 319-328.
http://www.jstor.org/stable/3813356
Grammer, K., Kruck, K., Juette, A. & Fink, B. (2000) Non-verbal behaviour as courtship signals: the role of control and choice in selecting partners. Evolution and Human Behaviour, 21, 371-390.
Abstract at http://www.sciencedirect.com/science?_ob=ArticleURL&_udi=B6T6H-421TM0X-1&_user=464852&_rdoc=1&_fmt=&_orig=search&_sort=d&_docanchor=&view=c&_acct=C000022310&_version=1&_urlVersion=0&_userid=464852&md5=0c5b15d1f03b840a798d69b1f4ce2b23
Grammar, Karl (1990). Strangers meet: Laughter and nonverbal signs of interest in opposite-sex encounters. Journal of Nonverbal Behavior, 14(4), 209-236.
Abstract at
http://www.springerlink.com/content/x813q68424g46550/
Then there's also the Social Issues Research Centre which takes much peer-review research and puts it in layman terms:
http://www.sirc.org/publik/flirt.html , which even talks about using body language in testing the waters to see how the other responds.