DaveE said:
You left out the most obvious parameter: Cost.
Exactly.
But more than that.
John Mcrain said:
What is most important parameter when we must build long last internal combustion engine and why?
specific output : HP/Displacement ?
HP per each cylinder?
Torque per cylinder?
Displacement per cylinder?
HP / piston area ?
RPM / displacement of one cylinder?
Numbers of cylinder?
Low RPM as possible?
Low combustion pressure?
Long stroke ,narrow bore?
Piston average speed?
I think you are trying to ask what parameters have the least wear on the engine, but it is difficult to say.
Do you want to look at highly maintained engines, or zero maintenance engines? Can we add or change oil, is it a wet or dry sump, is it for steady speed operation or urban driving type?
But
@DaveE has it in one word;
The longest lasting engines of all are those that COST the MOST to buy! If they cost a lot to buy one tends to maintain them very well, fix them when they go wrong and they keep going and going.
My grandfather's axe is the most reliable and longest lived axe of them all, if you see what I mean.
If you are talking about wear rate, then that is down to tribology, basically lowest friction losses and material compositions whose specifications far exceed those wearing loads. This is covered above; low mean effective crown pressures and temperatures, wide long block decks with multi-bolt bearing caps to stop flexing and plenty of space for cooling and avoid overcrowding the oil gunnels, etc. etc..
Basically, if you want 'an indestructible' reliable engine in your car, it'll be about 10 litres, 50bhp, 10mpg and weigh in at half a ton.
If you are talking about the durability of the first non-maintained part to fail (like a timing belt) then that is a very long discussion and has more to do with the engine's part's manufacturing processes than the engine and its design.
But remember the most cost effective reliable pen is a cheap Biro* because when it goes wrong you throw it and get another. It is a 'system-level' reliability rather than a 'parts-wise' reliability.
This draws a rather contradictory answer; the most reliable engine [thing] is one that is so valuable you maintain it so it never breaks down, but the best value-for-money reliability you can buy is something you can throw away.
*(I mention Biro because it is the commemoration day of Laszlo Biro's death today, FWIW.)