A point is an abstraction invented by Euclid.
dx*dy cannot be "visualized" as if it were a geometric object. Instead, visualize what one does with it, in context. Doing 2d integrals? Visualize finite partitions of a region (perhaps a grid of widths ΔxΔy), their Riemann sums under a function f, and the limiting behavior of all that. dx*dy is an informal way of saying we're looking at some limiting behavior, of finite Δx*Δy. Infinitesimals don't exist on their own - they exist with reference to some limiting process we're describing. Thus dx*dy has more mathematical meaning then just the 'point' at which it is located.