Clearly Newton's third law is not violated. There is a normal force on the particle, which is equal and opposite to the force that the particle exerts on the surface.
Your conceptual problem is that the particle is not exerting its full weight on the surface. Imagine, for example, that you construct a parabolic track. This track is exactly the shape that a projectile will take if fired at a certain speed at the top of the track. Now, in this case, the projectile will move along the track (theorectically it may be touching the track the whole way). But, it exerts no force on the track, because the projectile is actually in free-fall. In other words there is no normal force in this case.
Imagine, then, that the projectile is fired a little more slowly. Now the track is no longer the ideal parabola for the projectile. The projectile still moves along the track, but it's not quite in free fall this time. It's trying to move below the track. In this case there will be a non-zero normal force. But, this force will not be the full weight of the projectile.
If we analyse what is happening: some of the gravitational force is used to accelerate the particle in a curved path, leaving only some of the force to act as a force on the surface.
A related example is where an elevator accelerates downwards. You are still standing on the floor of the elevator, but only some of your weight is acting on the elevator floor. If you stand on a set of scales, they will record a lower weight while the elevator is accelerating. Once the elevator reaches a fixed speed, your weight will return to normal, as recorded on the scales.
The moral is that when an object is accelerating, you have to take that acceleration into account when looking at the force exerted by that object on an adjacent surface.