mieral said:
Why, when one wants to share quantum mechanics with layman.. is it not possible to start by sharing them about Bohmian Mechanics?
Of course it's
possible to do this. You can tell people whatever you want. I just don't think it's a good idea. I don't think it's a good idea to start with any interpretation. You should start with the actual physics: what model we use to make predictions, what we actually observe, and how the two match up.
That way you are sure you're not telling people anything they will have to unlearn, and you're not telling them anything they can use to make erroneous inferences. As soon as you go beyond that into an interpretation, those things are no longer true.
Experts in the field use interpretations to communicate with each other because they know their limitations. They don't use them to actually make predictions. They use them in order to have handy shorthand in ordinary language for things where all the other experts they're talking to know the underlying mathematical model and what the ordinary language terms in the interpretation refer to in that model. But this only works because everybody knows all those things, so they aren't being misled.
Occasionally, you find an expert who is able to use interpretations to communicate with lay people without misleading them, but it's rare. Feynman comes to mind as an example: if you read one of his pop science books, such as
QED: The Strange Theory of Light and Matter, or
The Character of Physical Law, you will find him using interpretations (though sparingly), but you will also find him constantly cautioning about the things he is leaving out and not to take what he is saying too literally. Most scientists who do pop science, however, are not that careful.
Similar comments apply to the "space expanding" interpretation of cosmological models.
mieral said:
in standard General Relativity, it is curved spacetime too
Not really. Curved spacetime is actually an interpretation. It's just so common that it's the one that is almost always used in textbooks and papers to describe things in words, so it has filtered down into pop science books on the subject as though it were the actual theory. But the underlying math of GR does not
have to be interpreted as curved spacetime; that should be evident since, as you agree, there is another interpretation, the spin-2 field in flat spacetime interpretation, of the same math. Most GR textbooks talk about this, although not many spend a lot of time on the spin-2 field interpretation (Weinberg's book, as I understand it, is an exception; I don't have it so I can't say from my own experience.)
For an example of a pop science book that actually explains this in connection with GR, try Kip Thorne's
Black Holes and Time Warps. (Thorne also mentions a third interpretation, which he calls the "membrane paradigm", but it's not really a complete interpretation of GR because it doesn't use the same math, it only uses an approximation that's valid in some cases but not all.) But again, for a pop science book to go to that trouble is rare.