Hello all,
Thanks. Especially the senior members of the forum for their patience and efforts to clarify the things for me.
There are variety of stand points proposed by all of you, and I am confused as to which one am I supposed to endorse. I think we are analyzing and reanalyzing and re-re-analyzing the simple situation. I have tried to restate the original statements but without any results. Here is my fresh attempt to refine my situation. But before that let me ask this...
For two clocks A (stationary) and B (moving wrt A), is there any mechanism possible so that both A and B will agree that their clocks were started simultaneously with initial reading zero?
If not, there is no situation, but previous posts suggest that it is not impossible. If at all it is possible, we start our situation by setting the two clocks at zero by some mechanism, and, as I have said, the method to do that is irrelevant. I will accept any logical method anybody comes up with.
Now, there are two frames A and B, agreed upon their clock matching. Eventually, their clocks collide and stop. Now, the clocks are no more dynamic, but static, like time written on a piece of paper, and can be matched by anyone. Their matching is real. We can not say that according to A, B's clock will be slow, and according to B, A's clock will be slow. The result is unique, and can be verified. There are no extra clocks or frames of references, and no "ambiguity" as I see it. If at all anyone sees one, please point-out and I will rectify it.
Two more things restated...
As it is impossible in SR to say which clock is moving, It also implies that it is impossible to say which clock is slow. I understand this, and that is my situation. But there is a solution. The solution is time dilation, which is a real (and not apparent) effect in SR. We can match the readings and decide that the clock which accumulated less time was moving. But here also is one catch. If at all we can decide which clock is slow experimentally, we can decide the absolute velocity of that clock, which is impossible in SR (due to isotropy of light speed).
The situation is comparable with that of two identical local earth-clocks, one kept at equator and the other at pole (any, south or north). This is example given for SR (and not GR) by einstein himself, which states, that the clock on equator will actually be slower then the pole clock for all frames of reference, because, the equator clock is moving. And similar (not same) tests have experimentally been performed, and certified to be consistent with SR. I would further clarify that, As it was example given for explanation of SR (and not GR) there was no mention of gravitational time dilation or time dilation due to acceleration. Though I wouldn't stress much upon this example, It is significantly similar to our situation, though our situation is much more simplified.
As for "ambiguity" of the situation, it is all because we are stressing upon the method of synchronization, which I have clarified and reclarified, that, is not important, unless at all it is impossible.
And the spacetime diagrams are not doing anything but confusing the situation with the additional math. I will honestly give it a full fledge effort though, but the situation is so symmetric after matching the clocks, that spacetime diagrams will only tell us the point of view of A and B. And again we will be left to decide, which clock is moving? Needless to say, it is impossible, except arbitrary assumption.