Black and white is more what you see instead of material property. The lack of light is dark, and it "looks" black. The night sky looks black. A closed room with no light inside looks black. If you do not see any light coming from an object you see it black.
Some objects emit light, and they are visible because of their own light. Other objects do not emit light but reflect the light of the sun or other light sources, and wee see the reflected light.
An object can be made black if the light is not reflected from it. It is not enough if it absorbs light. The best absorbers are also the best mirrors and they look bright and shiny when illuminated. But fine metal powders look dark, as the light enters among the pores and reflects many times, and all times it suffers absorption, till all the incident energy is lost.
"A black body" in Physics is modeled with a cavity inside a perfect absorber with a tiny hole in the front wall, where light can enter, but never finds way out.
Destructive interference also can be used to make an object dark. Antireflection coatings are fabricated from materials which are transparent, by choosing proper refractive index and adjusting the layer thickness.
People say that something is white if it reflects all radiation. But a mirror, although reflects almost everything, does not look white. If you smash the glass to very fine powder, it will look white. A surface should reflect light diffusely, in all directions, to have the "white" appearance.
ehild