Q-reeus said:
But doesn't this seem strange in principle?
Not to me; but one does have to be precise about defining terms like "energy"--that English vs. math thing again.
Q-reeus said:
As has been acknowledged earlier there is energy in the curvature/field
In a sense, yes, there is; but it's not "energy" in the sense of "non-zero stress-energy tensor". There is a lot of literature on the issue of "energy in the gravitational field", how it can be defined (there is no one unique way of defining it), how it figures into "energy conservation" (see further comments below on that), the fact that it can't be localized the way "energy" in the sense of a non-zero SET can, etc.
One example of a definition of "energy in the gravitational field" is described here:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stress–energy–momentum_pseudotensor
However, as I said above, I don't believe this is the only definition in the literature. (Other GR experts here may know more about this.)
The key point, though, is that "energy in the gravitational field" does *not* act as a "source" of gravity according to the Einstein Field Equation (because only a nonzero SET does that). In other words, the "energy in the gravitational field" is *not* "stress-energy". So:
Q-reeus said:
that position inevitably breaks that all forms of stress-energy should contribute to curvature.
This is wrong--all forms of *stress-energy* do contribute to curvature (by acting as a source in the EFE), but "energy in the gravitational field" is *not* "stress-energy" in this sense.
This may seem like playing with words, but let's consider the (very good) examples you bring up:
Q-reeus said:
Where would the latter leave e.g. Hulse-Taylor binary pulsar orbital decay data as proof of GW's? But it's easy to show energy must be in the field.
The binary pulsar is indeed a good example of a system which is losing energy that apparently can only be carried by "the field"--specifically, gravitational waves. The fact that the system is losing energy is well documented by the observed change in orbital parameters; the fact that the energy lost can only be carried by gravitational waves is shown by the absence of any other observed energy coming out of the system of the right order of magnitude (the system of course radiates EM waves as well, but AFAIK their intensity is nowhere near large enough to explain the change in orbital parameters).
However, the gravitational waves emitted by the binary pulsar are *not* a "source" of gravity, for the same reason that EM waves are not sources of electromagnetism. EM waves have zero charge, and gravitational waves have zero stress-energy. The waves can carry energy from a "source" (the binary pulsar) to a "sink" (a gravitational wave detector, for example, if we ever succeed in detecting them), but they themselves do not produce any curvature--they *are* curvature, propagated from one region of spacetime to another purely by the properties of spacetime itself, without any "source" present.
Now let's look at your second example:
Q-reeus said:
Consider the case of dispersed matter of total mass M brought 'from infinity' and assembled as a spherical thin shell of mean radius R. Let the Newtonian potential V = -M/R (with G=c=1) be small so 'linear gravity' applies, and assumes pressure is negligible.
Thin shells can be somewhat difficult to handle (I believe we had a thread about this some time back...) To make the scenario simpler, I would "assemble" the dispersed matter into a sphere in hydrostatic equilibrium, such as a planet; properly chosen values for the number and rest mass of the particles can ensure that the equilibrium is stable with negligible pressure compared to the energy density, and that the object will not collapse to a black hole.
Q-reeus said:
Let the original matter consisting of a large number N of identical particles conserve N during assembly so overall mass-energy is given off purely as heat that radiates away totally.
No problem here.
Q-reeus said:
If subsequently one constituent matter particle self-annihilates somehow and radiates to infinity, to a very good approximation that radiation has been frequency redshifted by a factor f = (1+2V)1/2. The shell now of N-1 particles has lost an overall mass of essentially fM/N.
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Which coincides when worked out, with the assembled mass M' being M' = M(1+f)/2 (approx), which exceeds fM.
I don't quite understand where the final expression here is coming from. I haven't had time to try to work through this scenario in detail. As a general comment, though, I would make the following observations:
(1) The externally measured mass, M, of the system once it has collapsed and all excess heat has radiated away, is *less* than the original energy at infinity, Nm (i.e., the number of particles N times the rest mass per particle m), of the particles. The difference is, of course, the energy at infinity of the radiated heat itself.
(2) Since the externally measured mass is smaller, the energy at infinity that will be seen by annihilating the first particle will be less than m (i.e., less than the rest mass a particle would have at infinity). Since there are N particles total, the average energy at infinity released per particle must be M/N (N particles, M total energy released). However, the energy at infinity released by the *last* particle should be m (because at that point the potential is unity; there is no "gravitational field" left). But m is greater than M/N, the average, so the energy released by the first particle should, indeed, be *less* than M/N.
(3) Some of the energy from the annihilation of the first particle can't be radiated to infinity: it has to go instead into the rest of the particles remaining in the object, making each of them slighly less tightly bound, gravitationally, than they were before. (This effect may be what you are thinking of as the energy in the field "balancing the ledger".) As fewer and fewer particles remain, this effect will become smaller and smaller, and more and more of the energy released by each particle's annihilation would be captured at infinity (to the point that the last particle's annihilation radiates its full rest mass, m, to infinity).
Not sure if all this helps, but as I said above, there is a lot of literature on this topic.