Gwelsjr,
I really appreciate your effort drawing diagrams. Good job.
Unfortunately I am not too happy with your text.
The way you explain it is as if the time dilation occurs due to the further dots pacing of clockticks on the clock worldline.
There is also a danger of interpreting your diagrams as if timedilation happens because of the taking into account of the lightbeams.
Let me put it this way:
You have drawn three different diagrams, but to see how timedilation works it is better to look at one diagram only with more information on it. I did it for you:
(For simplicity I omited what red says):
Blue notices black (and red) time dilation because when his blue clock ticks 15 (not 13 as you wrote;)), in his BLUE frame (=3D spaceworld) the black and red clock show 9.
So far so good.
Now what black says:
Black notices time dilation of blue time because "when his black clock ticks 9 seconds,
IN HIS BLACK FRAME (=3D spaceworld) the blue clock is only at 5,399 sec. (9 / 1,6667).
And still IN HIS BLACK 3D world the blue 'time dilation' means: red clock is only at 1,975 sec (9 / 4,5556).
Here you see clearly that the 'slowing down' of the blue and red clock
have NOTHING to with the further spacing of blue or red dots relative to the black dots (red dots are equally spaced as black, blue dots are less spaced relative to the black ones!).
On a Loedel diagram (I'm now too lazy too make one) you would see that the time dilation has nothing to do with the further spacing of clock ticks on the worldline of a clock. Time dilation is about relativity of simultaneity. (And that's only possible if you consider all events out there as observer independent entities time indications included (block universe).
Just in case you wonder what the reciprocal time dilation is for blue at 9 (see sketch below):
in blue 3D space black clock is at 5,389.
In blue 3D space when blue clock is at 5,399 the black clock is at 3,238 (= 5,399 : 1,667 ).
3D cuts through 4D block spacetime!