student34 said:
the interval is shorter. But that only seems to be a matter of perception.
I have no idea what you mean. Spacetime intervals are invariants. All observers agree on them.
student34 said:
For example, Bob is observing the distance of one side of a square to be 1 meter, and Alice is observing opposite corners of the square to be 2^(1/2). We wouldn't say that the square contracted. Nothing is changing or contracting.
That is true. But we also would not say that Alice was measuring a "side" of the square to begin with. We would say she was measuring a "diagonal". And everybody recognizes that the side and the diagonal of a square are different line segments with different lengths.
In the spacetime case, however, each observer, Alice and Bob, considers the interval
they are measuring to be the "length" of the object. And since the "length" measured by one is shorter than the "length" measured by the other, the term "length contraction" is used. It is probably not the best term to describe the physics, but it's the term that's in all the literature so we're stuck with it.
student34 said:
Furthermore, we wouldn't say that the square is shorter for Bob than it is for Alice. That is trivially incorrect.
Of course, because we all recognize that the side of a square is shorter than its diagonal. Our intuitions on this are fine.
Our intuitions also, however, tell us that the "length" of an object should
not depend on whether it is moving relative to us or not. Yet relativity tells us that it
does. That is why "length contraction" is counterintuitive: because our intuitions are
not fine in this case.
We could "fix" this "problem" by requiring another word to be used to describe measuring what we now call the "length" of an object if the object is moving relative to us. But changing the words we use wouldn't change the physics at all.