OK, you've found the roots, that's good.
To know the degree of the splitting field over $\Bbb Q$, we need to know if $h(x)$ is irreducible over $\Bbb Q$.
We know that $h(x)$ has no linear factors in $\Bbb Q[x]$ (since none of the roots are rational), and thus also no rational cubic factors. Does it have any quadratic factors in $\Bbb Q[x]$?
If $h(x) = (x^2 + ax + b)(x^2 + cx + d)$ we have:
$a+c = 0$
$ac + b + d = -2$
$ad + bc = 0$
$bd = 9$.
So $c = -a$, and the third equation becomes $a(d - b) = 0$. Thus either $a = 0$, or $b = d$.
If $a = c = 0$, then the second equation is $b+d = -2$. Since $d = \dfrac{9}{b}$, we get:
$b + \dfrac{9}{b} = -2$, that is:
$b^2 - 2b + 9 = 0$. Checking the discriminant: $4 - 36 = -32 < 0$, we see this has no real, thus no rational, solutions.
Thus $b = \pm 3$. Substituting back in equation 2, either:
$-a^2 - 6 = -2 \implies a^2 = -4$ (for $b = -3$) , this is impossible;
$-a^2 + 6 = -2 \implies a^2 = 8$ (for $b = 3$), which has no rational solution, as $8$ is not a perfect square.
So we conclude that $h(x)$ is indeed irreducible, as its roots are all distinct it is separable, so the splitting field has degree $4 = \text{deg }h$ over $\Bbb Q$.
As this splitting field (let's call it $E$) is Galois (being a splitting field), we see that $|\text{Gal}(E/\Bbb Q)| = 4$.
So we are looking for a group of automorphisms of $E$, that fix $\Bbb Q$, of order $4$.
Now it should be clear that $E \subseteq \Bbb Q(\sqrt{2},i)$, since the roots of $h$ are contained in the latter field.
Furthermore, by factoring $h$ over the reals, we see that:
$h(x) = (x^2 + 2\sqrt{2}x + 3)(x^2 - 2\sqrt{2}x + 3)$.
Since $i \not\in \Bbb Q(\sqrt{2})$, and $i$ is a root of $x^2 + 1 \in \Bbb Q(\sqrt{2})[x]$, we see that:
$[\Bbb Q(\sqrt{2},i):\Bbb Q(\sqrt{2})] = 2$, and clearly $[\Bbb Q(\sqrt{2}:\Bbb Q] = 2$, thus:
$[\Bbb Q(\sqrt{2},i):\Bbb Q] = [\Bbb Q(\sqrt{2},i):\Bbb Q(\sqrt{2})][\Bbb Q(\sqrt{2}:\Bbb Q] = 4$.
Since $[E:\Bbb Q] = 4$, as well, we see that $\Bbb Q(\sqrt{2},i)$ *is* $E$.
Complex-conjugation clearly gives us an element of $\text{Gal}(E/\Bbb Q)$ of order $2$ which fixes the subfield $\Bbb Q(\sqrt{2})$.
The map: $\sqrt{2} \mapsto -\sqrt{2}, i \mapsto i$ also gives us an automorphism of order 2, so we conclude the Galois group is the Klein 4-group.
As far as "finding the roots by hand", since $h(x)$ is a bi-quadratic (a quadratic in $x^2$), it's really pretty easy:
Solve $y^2 - 2x + 9$ for $y$ by using the quadratic formula.
Sub $x^2$ in for $y$, and then solve the resulting two quadratics (you'll need to know how to take the square root of a complex number),
OR: solve the two (real) quadratics I found up above.