If you haven't already, read the Wiki articles on hybridization and LCAO.
Also, you should know about VSEPR theory, which extends Pauling's ideas.
Then, consider the following two examples.
Hybridization theory considers methane as being formed from four equivalent C-H bonds involving an sp^3 hybridized carbon. But, if one looks at the valence photoelectron spectrum one finds two peaks, not one. In contrast, molecular orbital theory predicts two peaks. There is a totally symmetric orbital that lies below the first absorption.
The second example is ethylene. Promotion of one of the pi electrons into the lowest unoccupied orbital (pi antibonding) obviously weakens the pi bond. But, whether this excited state can relax by pyramidalization or rotation or both can only be quantitatively predicted by numerical molecular orbital calculations.
So, only molecular orbital theory, which is quantum mechanics, can provide, a priori, a correct answer. If you have access to a computer, you might contemplate using it to interpret your results. Also, you might want to look at "Atoms in Molecules" by Richard Bader, which discusses at length the connection between VSEPR and molecular orbital theory.
Finally, I should mention that specialists in your area may have developed semi-empirical heuristics based on hybridization to interpret experimental results. But, I'm not a specialist in this area and cannot mention anything specific or say that they don't exist.
-Jim