In case you have a big metal plate and a point charge q
+ at distance d from it (the lateral sizes of the plate much bigger than d) you can find the electric field with the method of mirror charges: the metal surface has to be equipotential and the electric force lines are perpendicular to it, as if an equal and opposite charge was at distance d behind the surface. From that, you find the surface charge density on the surface, and can determine the force exerted by the surface charges on the original charge. Note, that the surface charge density is not constant.
If the plate is not grounded, the other surface has the same charge but distributed evenly. The surface charge density can be considered zero if the metal plate can be considered infinity. The q
- charge on the other side does not feel anything from the presence of the q
+ charge on the other side. There is no sense to ask the force between them. Remember, a volume separated by metal from the surroundings does not feel the outside electric field .
When the charges are at different distances from the metal, they feel different forces from it.
If the metal plate is small, you have to consider the electric field at the edges, too. Still, the whole surface is at the same potential. But the induced charges distribute along the finite surface and the charges feel the presence of the other charge.
In the case when the thin metal sheet is placed just halfway between the q
+ and q
- charges , it is at the equipotential surface of the electric field. Introducing it, does not change anything. You can even fill the volume enclosed by the metal sheet with metal (half space in this case), the electric field outside it remains the same, and the force one charge feels remains the same.
If the distances are different, the metal sheet is not on an equipotential surface of the original electric field, but it will become that, changing the electric field.