azaharak said:
I'm not sure what you mean by "at the nucleus". Who says that the Bohr radius is where the nucleus starts.
It's not at a maximum at the Bohr radius, it's at a maximum at r=0, which is truly "at the nucleus".
I know that the most probable location of the electron is the Bohr radius
No, that's the most probable radius. The probability of being at a radius r is the sum over the probabilities of every point at that radius; so it's 4*π*r
2|Ψ|
2 which is not the same thing as the probability for an single location in space, which is |Ψ|
2. The reason an atom has a finite extent is due to basic quantum mechanics. The momentum of a particle is related to the derivative of its (spatial) wave function and so, location-probabilities. The more sharply located the electron (or any particle) is located in space, the higher its momentum and kinetic energy. Alternately, you can use the uncertainty principle to make a heuristic argument along the same lines.
Or you can make a classical analogy to a standing wave, and consider how its fundamental frequency (and so energies) will increase as the wave-length decreases, and chalk it down to 'wave-like' behavior on the part of the electron. Or you can take the simple particle-in-the-box model and trivially see how its energy changes with box size. The coulomb potential energy, which 'wants' the electron near the nucleus is counteracted by the kinetic energy, which would be minimized by dispersing the electron as much as possible. The points where those 'balance' are the stationary states of the system. (This is essentially the time-independent Schrödinger equation expressed in words)
And as JeffKoch says, you're not going to learn anything from reading crackpot blogs like that one. There's nothing wrong with our theoretical understanding of electrons in atoms. It's one of the most accurately-measured and well-verified things around. (specifically, the Rydberg constant is the most accurately-measured fundamental constant) All that quote seems to say is "this doesn't make sense to me, and any explanation is just nonsense". The fact that things work this way is fundamental to quantum mechanics, and QM is a spectacularly successful theory at explaining how things work,
especially electrons in atoms. If someone thinks it's wrong, they'll need to point to some objective experimental fact that the theory doesn't predict. It's not an argument that it doesn't fit your preconceptions of how reality "should" work.
Nobody said quantum physics was intuitive or "made sense" from a classical POV. But nature isn't under any obligation to "make sense" to us, either.