I have not heard of this rule before. A few of the resources I've looked up online do not list this as a rule either:
https://chem.libretexts.org/Core/Ph...hemical_Bonding/Valence_Bond_Theory/Resonance
http://web.chem.ucla.edu/~harding/tutorials/resonance/imp_res_str.html
I think when they're talking about sigma complexes, they're talking about formation of a new single bond (i.e. a
sigma bond).While that could be one reason, there are other factors to consider as well. If reactions occur reversibly, then ultimately the thermodynamic stability of the product will determine which product is more abundant after the reaction. The link I cited makes this argument, saying that addition to C2 or C5 results in a more stable product.
A full answer to the question probably requires quantum mechanical modeling of the atom to calculate the actual electron density around each atom. I also don't agree with the answer given. The question is probably just poorly conceived.