aawahab76, I will try to give you some meaning in a little different context. Imagine that the universe is really physically a 4-dimensional space and that all objects in the universe are actually 4-dimensional objects, fixed--frozen--, the objects are just there extending along what are called world lines. The situation is depicted in the upper left sketch below. Here is a simple beam as a real 4-dimensional object. You see one 3-D cross-section of the beam below with the normal X1, X2, X3 coordinates. For the 4-dimensional sketch we had to suppress X3 in order to view the 4th dimension.
A curious mystery of this 4-dimensional world is that in some way you have to imagine observers (occupying a living 4-D body object) moving along their X4 world line at the speed of light, c. At any instant of an observer's time he can experience just a 3-dimensional cross-section of that 4-dimensional universe. And to make matters more strange his instantaneous cross-section view is slanted so that his X1 axis always rotates so as to make the light photon world line bisect the angle between the X4 and X1 axis as shown in the sketch to the right. So, if you consider this 4-dimensional world as actually working this way physically, then you might find your physical picture.
Once you accept this model of the 4-dimensional universe as having real 4-dimensional objects, then the problems relating to simultenaity become trivially simple. Notice in the lower right sketch that there is an event 1 and event 2 (red dots). Event 1 occurs first for the blue observer, but those same two events occur in opposite time sequence for the black observer. The two events are definite fixed events in the 4-dimensional universe. But, it's just that the blue and black observers experience two totally different instantaneous 3-D spaces within a 4-D universe. And to emphasize again, we are not talking about equations and graphs, here--rather we attempt to picuture a real physical 4-dimensional universe with real 4-dimensional physical objects.
However, now you are beginning to cross over into the subject of metaphysics and philosophy of special relativity, subjects that are frought with many different views. To purse special relativity in this context in this forum, you should visit the philosophy forum (It wasn't clear to me whether the questions in your mind were more of this nature).