jaketodd said:
if two objects are not moving, relative to one another, aren't they in inertial reference frames?
First, what you mean to ask, I take it, is are they
at rest in inertial reference frames. An object is always "in" every frame. It just isn't at rest in every frame.
An object that is accelerating (in the sense of proper acceleration) cannot be at rest in an inertial frame, because it isn't moving inertially. Go read my post #2 again, carefully.
jaketodd said:
if two objects, accelerating relative to a third, but not to one another, then they'd be inertial
Go read my post #2 again, carefully. Note that it specifies a particular meaning for the term "accelerating", a meaning which has nothing to do with whether the object is accelerating relative to any other object. Note also that the definition of "inertial" depends on that definition of "accelerating", and also has nothing to do with the object's state of motion relative to any other object.
In the statement of yours just quoted above, you have not given sufficient information to tell whether the first two objects are inertial or not, because you have said nothing about whether accelerometers attached to them read zero or nonzero. (Or, equivalently, whether the first two objects feel acceleration.) So there are two possibilities:
(1) The first two objects are both feeling acceleration, and the third is not. Then the third object is inertial, and the first two are not.
(2) The first two objects are not feeling acceleration, and the third is. Then the first two objects are inertial, and the third is not.
jaketodd said:
To the first two objects, they would just see each other, not moving, nothing special going on.
This would be the case for #2 above. But it would
not be the case for #1.
jaketodd said:
how can both scenarios coexist in the same universe?
They can't. Either #1 above, or #2 above, can be the case, but both cannot be the case in the same universe.