Okay, look at this this way (I really don't mean to sound condescending, so sorry if it does):
2/4 = 1/2 right? That's easy to understand
We have to add:
1/9 + 1/4 + 1/12
What we have to do is write these fractions in a way that they all have the same denominator (which is the lcm, 36)
So the value of the fractions stay the same, we just write them in a different way
Let's use 1/9:
In the same way that 2/4 = 1/2,
1/9 = some number / 36. All you have to do is ask yourself, what number to I multiply by 9 to get 36? The answer is 4
therefore: 1/9 = 4/36
Do the same for 1/4. What multiplied by 4 = 36? the answer is 9
so 1/4 = 9/36
What multiplied by 12 = 36?
So 1/12 =
Then you just write them like that (with the same denominator) and add them, and you have your answer.
You said you sometimes have to solve for R2 or d0. For these you can just rearrage the equations
eg: from 1/Re = 1/R1 + 1/R2 + 1/R3 (the 'e' means equivalent) you get
1/R2 = 1/Re - 1/R1 - 1/R2
The same can be done for d0