Lets consider two cases. In the one case you push a box over the floor and in the other case you push against a wall. Obviously the answer lies in how hard the object can push back at you. If it has not moved when you reached your maximum strength, then you are in trouble, no motion of the object = no motion of you. The answer therefore lies in the system that you are considering (you + box). You need to look at the total force that the combined system are experiencing for motion (according to N2). Remember that the box will match your pushing force against it, but you are also pushing against the floor with your feet, and the floor are pushing back at you with the same force (N3 again). If this force overpowers, or matches, the matching force from the box, then we've got motion of the system. Note that you can decide how hard you want to push the system (you + box) by how hard your legs are pushing against the floor, thereby determining how quickly the system will move.