Found it, so just forget I even asked. I should have had a more detailed look before posting.
I have a question about PM's though.
I miss the way the flashing popup message would alert you to the presence of a PM. I am still getting used to the features with this forum and wonder if it is possible to enable some type of active alert or not.
You can still get that pop up message. Go to User CP then go to edit options. Go down to the messaging section and there is an option for a pop up box.
Thank you Nicool003,
I just followed your directions and now I'm 'just a twitchen' to get a PM and try it out.