Grimble said:
I measure 1 hr on the clock I am holding between event 1 and event 2.
That is frame invariant. It is true in any reference frame.
Grimble said:
You measure the interval between event 1 and event 2 to be 1.25 hours.
You measure the interval to be 1 hour also. The coordinate time or duration is 1.25 hours in your frame.
The outcome of any measurement can be analyzed in any reference frame. But the quantity measured may not have the same significance in other frames. In your example, Everyone will agree that the time you measured was 1.25 hours, but due to time dilation and the relativity of simultaneity, they will not generally agree that the measurement correctly measured the duration between the two events.
Quantities that are described as "invariant" go beyond this. Not only do all reference frames agree that you obtained the value you did, they also agree that it is the correct value. The spacetime interval is one such measurement, all frames agree on it and agree that it correctly represents the interval. In this case the interval is 1 hr for all reference frames.
Grimble said:
Is that measuring 'with' the reference frames; 'relative to' the reference frames; 'against' those reference frames..
You make measurements with physical devices. Reference frames are mathematical conveniences. You don't make measurement with, against, or relative to them. They are part of the analysis, not part of the measurement.
Grimble said:
f we carry on like this we can forget about science and just debate symantics..
While that is true, it is important to understand the semantics since they include words with precise technical meanings intended to convey important concepts.
Here, I have repeatedly explained this concept of reference frames being part of the analysis and you are still talking about them being part of the measurement and thinking that the debate is over the use of "with" or "against". Beyond the mere semantics, you are missing the actual underlying point I am making.