It is possible, in principle, for large objects to be prepared in a superposition of some sorts of states. However - arguments like that sort-of miss the point Schrodinger's Cat is trying to make. The thought-experiment is often misrepresented in popular media which does not help.
I
used to think of it as the cat did the measurement, rendering it dead or alive. These are classical rather than quantum mechanical states after all. Before opening the box, therefore, we have a classical probability distribution. We don't know if the cat is dead or alive until looking but looking does not kill (or save) the cat, nor does the time evolution of the cat's life-state involve wavelike properties.
In general - classical probability describes the researcher's state of knowledge of a classical system - quantum probability describes the
Universes state of knowledge of the quantum system.
I say I
used to think like that ;) I still think it is a useful stepping-stone.
Kan K said:
the superposition does not extend well beyond the particle
This is not correct - it is possible to prepare a particle in a superposition of the first two energy eigenfunctions of the infinite square well ... the size of the well can be any size you like, say, the length of the lab. I'm sure you'll agree that a wavefunction spanning many meters extends well outside the particle - however you want to define the size of the particle.
The concept of a "collapse" has issues too and should be taken with caution. Like, above, I described the collapse of a quantum system leading to a change in classical state of the cat. Or did the wave-function collapse when the cat died/failed-to-die? Or was it when I looked? Perhaps I got someone else to look, and they tell me ... did the collapse happen when
they looked or when they told me what they saw? Maybe it collapsed for them and not for me until they tell me? But what if they can't get hold of me and just leave a message on my voicemail? Does leaving the message collapse the wavefunction or does my accessing voicemail collapse it? What if I forget to check voicemail or there is a fault and my supplier deletes the voicemail? Does that make the collapse un-happen?
The
point of the whole set of questions is that this way of thinking about the system is nonsense. However - we still have to use this quantum mechanics stuff. Just beware of attempts to simplify the situation for some idea of a layman.