PeterDonis said:
if I'm right, the effect of frame dragging is to change how "centrifugal force" works; it changes the *magnitude* of proper acceleration required for a given equatorial trajectory, not its direction. What actually gets "dragged" tangentially is the "zero point" of centrifugal force: the closer to the rotating hole you are, the more the "zero point" of centrifugal force is biased in the direction of the hole's rotation.
The blog post is still not complete--in fact, it has now grown into two blog posts because the first one went over the 10000 character PF limit on blog posts! However, I can at least report enough results to address the topic of this thread. (The blog posts are also going to address some more general questions about the behavior of proper acceleration in Kerr spacetime, which I find interesting in their own right since there are some key differences from the non-rotating case that I didn't see coming. But more on some of that below.)
Regarding the intuitive guesses I made, quoted above, I was half right. The effect of frame dragging, at least in the equatorial plane of Kerr spacetime, does not affect the direction of proper acceleration, only its magnitude. However, the effect on the "zero point" of centrifugal force, i.e., the point of maximum proper acceleration required to maintain altitude, is the opposite of what I guessed: the maximum point moves "backwards" relative to the hole's rotation, i.e., the more the hole rotates, the more the maximum point moves in the retrograde direction--the direction of tangential motion opposite to the hole's rotation.
In retrospect, of course, this is obvious.

What frame dragging does is to make it easier (i.e., to require less force) to maintain altitude if you are circling the hole along with the hole's rotation, and to make it harder if you are circling against the hole's rotation. This can be interpreted as "adding some centrifugal force" due to the hole's rotation, so of course a ZAMO, who is rotating with the hole, will find it easier to maintain altitude than a static observer. (The part that isn't quite obvious is that even a static observer gets some "help" from the hole's rotation, since the maximum is always at some nonzero retrograde angular velocity.)
This means that, in the equatorial plane, the force required to hold an object static is indeed purely radial (as I posted before), and so is the gradient of the energy at infinity (since in the equatorial plane we have E = \sqrt{g_{tt}} = \sqrt{1 - 2M/r}). It's then straightforward to show (as I think we've already done in this thread) that the force at infinity is equal to minus the gradient of energy at infinity.
However, for objects held static at a point that is not in the equatorial plane, both the force and the gradient of energy at infinity will have a non-radial component (a \theta component in the Boyer-Lindquist chart for Kerr spacetime). This part will not be in my forthcoming blog post, but it looks like a computation of the components will show that, although the individual components are not identical, the ratio of the \theta component to the r component is the same for both (so both vectors point in the same direction--or opposite directions if we take the minus sign into account), and the magnitude of the gradient of the energy at infinity is indeed the "redshift factor" times the magnitude of the local force vector (rest mass times proper acceleration). In other words, the equation (force at infinity = - gradient of energy at infinity) does not hold at the component level, but it *does* hold as an invariant equation summed over all nonzero components. The computations are rather messy so I won't post them unless someone asks, but this at least suggests that the same should be true for a generic stationary spacetime.