AlMetis said:
How far apart are these coordinates?
What are you talking about?
There is a formula that we can use to determine "how far apart" two coordinate four-tuples are from one another. Let us identify two events ##E_1## and ##E_2## with coordinates ##(x_1, y_1, z_1, t_1)## and ##(x_2, y_2, z_2, t_2)## respectively. The "how far apart", ##s## between the two events is given by:$$s^2 = (x_1 - x_2)^2 + (y_1 - y_2)^2 + (z_1 - z_2)^2 - (t_1 - t_2)^2$$If we shift to an a new reference frame where the same two events ##E_1## and ##E_2## are identified with coordinates ##({x'}_1, {y'}_1, {z'}_1, {t'}_1)## and ##({x'}_2, {y'}_2, {z'}_2, {t'}_2)## then the same formula applies:$${s'}^2 = ({x'}_1 - {x'}_2)^2 + ({y'}_1 - {y'}_2)^2 + ({z'}_1 - {z'}_2)^2 - ({t'}_1 - {t'}_2)^2$$Further, it will turn out to be the case that ##s^2 = s'^2##.
So "how far apart" is an invariant measure. It looks like it is a function of
coordinates, but that is just because we specified our events with coordinates. It is actually a function that takes two events as input and spits out a [squared] separation as the output.
This "how far apart" formula is the "metric" for the flat space-time of special relativity. When you get to the curved space-times that general relativity can contemplate, the metric will not have this exact form. Though in the limit of increasingly nearby events, it will approximate this form ever more closely.
If you are evaluating the separation between the two ends of a physical rod, then you are asking for the separation between the world-line corresponding to the one end and the world-line corresponding to the other end.
That is not the separation between two events -- it is the separation between two trajectories.
In order to apply the "how far apart" formula, you need to identify two events. We conventionally pick out two events that are "at the same time" according to some agreed-upon simultaneity convention.
Each frame has its own simultaneity convention. So each frame will be comparing
different pairs of events when they measure the separation between two trajectories.
The two frames are not measuring the same thing. They are measuring different frame-specific hings. This is the same way that the measured width of a strip of paper depends on the angle at which you hold the ruler.