johnny_bohnny said:
I would prefer a concrete example to clarify this conceptual mess in my head. So clocks on Earth that are at rest, when we consider them as the frames of reference, disagree on simultaneity. I get this, but what is the criteria for this. All clocks on the line of rotation have different perspectives on simultaneity? How does their perspective differ? There are many questions in my head and I doubt maths would help it since I'm not an excellent mathematician like most of you guys. Can you give me an example that is based with some clocks on earth, or something like that?
I'm not quite sure I understand what your confusion is, so it's hard to address.
Let me add a few things.
A clock that is "at rest" as in having constant lattitude and longitude is not at rest relative to a hypothetical non-rotating inertial frame based at the center of the Earth.
Einstein synchronization is based on a non-rotating and inertial (or nearly inertial) frame of reference. You were asking about "criterion" - the "criterion" for Einstein clock synchronization is is that clocks moving at a different velocity in an inertial (or nearly so) frame of reference have different concepts of simultaneity.
THe clocks "at rest" (as in having constant lattitude) all have different velocities, and hence all have different notions of "Einstein simultaneity" for points near them. Is this what you were asking about? I wasn't quite sure.
You are also asking about how we actually keep time on Earth. YOu can read about "atomic time", aka TAI time on the wikipedia. You'll note that it does NOT use Einstein synchronization, which is logical because TAI covers the whole Earth without any discontinuities, and as it's been remarked this isn't possible with Einstein clock synchronization.
All clocks on the geoid all run at the same rate, and the TAI standard defines a notion of simultaneity that is not the same as Einstein's.
THis has some consequences to the laws of mechanics, etc - I'm not going to go into detail unless this is one of the things you're interested in. Well, I will say one thing. The Einstein notion of simultaneity (which is the one we are NOT using on the Earth) is really the best/simplest one mechanics, so expect a few surprises when you write the laws of mechanics on the Earth using TAI time. Going into the details would probalby just be confusing until we get the rest of your confusions sorted, I think.
You were also asking about how we order events. This doesn't have anything to do with how we define simultaneity in relativity. Ordering of events in an observer independent manner is always done with light cones, because ordering events according to their coordinates depend on what coordinates you use (I think this is obvious?).
Briefly, I can say that "events in the past light cone are in the past" and "events in the future light cone are in the future" isn't clear enough, I suppose I could go on in more detail. But since I don't know what you're confused about and what you're interested in, it would seem to be better to wait for a question.
So you asked about a bunch of different things, and I tried to answer each "tangent". I hope that clarifies things rather than confuses you more, but I can't quite figure out what you want to know,.