Should reading your wife's e-mail be a crime?

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A Rochester Hills man, Leon Walker, faces felony charges for accessing his wife's email without permission, a situation that has sparked debate about privacy rights within marriage. While some argue that reading a spouse's email is a violation of trust, they believe it should be treated as a moral issue rather than a criminal one. Legal experts note this is the first use of a Michigan statute typically applied to identity theft in a domestic context, raising questions about its applicability and the burden of proof. The discussion highlights differing views on privacy in marriage, with some asserting that marriage does not equate to forfeiting individual privacy rights. Critics argue that accessing a spouse's email without permission should be considered illegal, regardless of marital status, while others contend that trust and communication should govern such matters instead of legal repercussions. The case raises broader questions about privacy expectations in relationships and the legal implications of accessing personal communications.

Should reading your wife's e-mail be a crime?


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He shouldn't have been going through his wife's e-mail, but in my opinion this should be more of a moral problem than a criminal problem. In other words, he was in the wrong, but he shouldn't go to jail or go to court over something so stupid.

A Rochester Hills man faces up to 5 years in prison — for reading his wife’s e-mail.

Oakland County prosecutors, relying on a Michigan statute typically used to prosecute crimes such as identity theft or stealing trade secrets, have charged Leon Walker, 33, with a felony after he logged onto a laptop in the home he shared with his wife, Clara Walker.

Using her password, he accessed her Gmail account and learned she was having an affair. He now is facing a Feb. 7 trial. She filed for divorce, which was finalized earlier this month.

Legal experts say it’s the first time the statute has been used in a domestic case, and it might be hard to prove.

Read more: http://landofthefreeish.com/privacy/is-reading-your-wifes-e-mail-a-crime/
 
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A purely domestic case, it going to court is a waste of taxpayers money.
 
IMO - 5 years is a long time to serve in jail for reading the email of your spouse. However, Michigan typically locks up felons for 3.7 to 14 years so it might be in-line with local standards?
http://www.ingham.org/pa/PDF/ReducingCrimePart2.pdf
 
It's illegal to open someone else's mail, so why not email?
 
Nigh on impossible to prove and therefore a waste of time. It can easily be claimed that it auto logged in. Further to this, should a text message be included in 'mail' if you are going to include emails?
 
xxChrisxx said:
It can easily be claimed that it auto logged in.

Auto log-on would not enable one to read an entire email, so no, this cannot be easily claimed.
 
cristo said:
Auto log-on would not enable one to read an entire email, so no, this cannot be easily claimed.

Well, time will tell.
 
cristo said:
It's illegal to open someone else's mail, so why not email?

If you opened your wifes mail, should society see it as a crime?
 
Pengwuino said:
If you opened your wifes mail, should society see it as a crime?

This is the point I consider most important - the email of a spouse - possibly on a shared account.

On a side note, wasn't there a ruling a few years ago that business emails were the property of the business - not the individual.
 
  • #10
Husband and wife have made a pact in front of witnesses to share their lives.

What he did was, at worst, a crappy violation of that trust. But not a crime.
 
  • #11
DaveC426913 said:
Husband and wife have made a pact in front of witnesses to share their lives.

What he did was, at worst, a crappy violation of that trust. But not a crime.

This. It's not a crime to read the email of someone who promised to share their life with you. Besides, there shouldn't be any secrets between you anyways.
 
  • #12
Char. Limit said:
This. It's not a crime to read the email of someone who promised to share their life with you. Besides, there shouldn't be any secrets between you anyways.

Well, I'm not that strong. I do feel it's a violation of trust (though his suspicion was vindicated). She is entitled to some privacy.

Hwo much privacy there "should" be between a couple is not for us to decide.
 
  • #13
DaveC426913 said:
Husband and wife have made a pact in front of witnesses to share their lives.

What he did was, at worst, a crappy violation of that trust. But not a crime.

"Share their lives" NOT "Give up every bit of privacy and any right to privacy in the future".

My wife doesn't have access to my email or my cell phone. Nor I hers (though I know her passwords, since I helped her set up most of her online accounts and have helped her trouble-shoot them at some point or another). I don't remember "access to my email" being a part of my wedding vows.

In fact, considering some sensitive (patient) data I work with, it would be a crime for me to give my wife access to my email. My laptop is encrypted and I can't give her access to that either.

There are many legitimate reasons for maintaining privacy from one's spouse (that was just one example), and to assume that simply because they are married he has a legal right to do something which is illegal in every other circumstance is ridiculous.
 
  • #14
Another example, more relevant to this particular case:

What if she had been corresponding with a divorce lawyer, intending to leave him, but didn't want him to know for some legitimate reason (he might take the money and run, he might take the kids and move out of country, he might become abusive, etc.)? Even if her fears are unfounded, she still has a right to private communication with a lawyer, and he has no right to access that.
 
  • #15
NeoDevin said:
Another example, more relevant to this particular case:

What if she had been corresponding with a divorce lawyer, intending to leave him, but didn't want him to know for some legitimate reason (he might take the money and run, he might take the kids and move out of country, he might become abusive, etc.)? Even if her fears are unfounded, she still has a right to private communication with a lawyer, and he has no right to access that.

You know, I always thought that both parties were supposed to know of a divorce before it happened. I didn't know that one party could arrange the entire thing right up until the day where she sweeps the rug from under the guy.
 
  • #16
DaveC426913 said:
Hwo much privacy there "should" be between a couple is not for us to decide.

Exactly. But the above is inconsistent with the below.

DaveC426913 said:
What he did was, at worst, a crappy violation of that trust. But not a crime.

By saying there is no penalty for someone who accesses their spouses email without permission, you are implicitly deciding for them that there is no privacy allowed, or at least no recourse for them to defend their privacy.

If someone gives one permission to access their email, it's not a crime to do so. If one doesn't have permission, but accesses it anyways, that is a crime, whether or not the people involved are married.
 
  • #17
NeoDevin said:
"Share their lives" NOT "Give up every bit of privacy and any right to privacy in the future".

My wife doesn't have access to my email or my cell phone. Nor I hers (though I know her passwords, since I helped her set up most of her online accounts and have helped her trouble-shoot them at some point or another). I don't remember "access to my email" being a part of my wedding vows.

In fact, considering some sensitive (patient) data I work with, it would be a crime for me to give my wife access to my email. My laptop is encrypted and I can't give her access to that either.

There are many legitimate reasons for maintaining privacy from one's spouse (that was just one example), and to assume that simply because they are married he has a legal right to do something which is illegal in every other circumstance is ridiculous.

Well if she had that vital of info on the community computer, she should have kept her passwords secret. In the article it says "Using her password, he accessed her Gmail account and learned she was having an affair. He now is facing a Feb. 7 trial. She filed for divorce, which was finalized earlier this month."

A breach of trust, surely, a felony crime no way.
 
  • #18
Char. Limit said:
You know, I always thought that both parties were supposed to know of a divorce before it happened. I didn't know that one party could arrange the entire thing right up until the day where she sweeps the rug from under the guy.

I don't know that one party can, but there could be communication with a lawyer well before actual divorce proceedings have been started. Deciding what the best approach is, documenting assets and income, determining which assets one has a right to, and which should go to the other partner, arrange for an application for temporary custody of children, etc.

In fact, in extreme cases, one can apply for an "ex parte" order for restraint, support, and custody. This is a court order that is made without representation of one of the parties (owing to the fear of abuse), and generally serves as a combination restraining order, order of financial support, and custody order against the party who was not represented at the hearing.
 
  • #19
NeoDevin said:
In fact, in extreme cases, one can apply for an "ex parte" order for restraint, support, and custody. This is a court order that is made without representation of one of the parties (owing to the fear of abuse), and generally serves as a combination restraining order, order of financial support, and custody order against the party who was not represented at the hearing.

Remind me not to get married. I don't want to have to fear that axe.

EDIT: I honestly didn't know women had such a large club to swing. I'm really seriously starting to fear marriage now.
 
  • #20
Jasongreat said:
Well if she had that vital of info on the community computer, she should have kept her passwords secret. In the article it says "Using her password, he accessed her Gmail account and learned she was having an affair. He now is facing a Feb. 7 trial. She filed for divorce, which was finalized earlier this month."

A breach of trust, surely, a felony crime no way.

It isn't clear from the quoted sections of the article how he obtained her password. Did she give it to him at some point in the past (if she did, and then had an affair documented via email, she's an idiot)? Did he watch over her shoulder when she was typing it in? Did he install a keylogger on the computer or a video camera pointed at the keyboard to obtain it?

What is clear is that the information was not on the community computer, but was on Google's servers in her Gmail account. He somehow obtained her password and accessed her account without her permission.

Had this happened to anyone else, it would be a clear felony, and there would be no debate. In what part of the marriage contract is access to email implicitly or explicitly granted? If you can't provide evidence that access is granted, then it's still a felony to access someone else's email without permission.
 
  • #21
Char. Limit said:
Remind me not to get married. I don't want to have to fear that axe.

EDIT: I honestly didn't know women had such a large club to swing. I'm really seriously starting to fear marriage now.

Tell me about it. I only learned about them after I got married. j/k

In other news: You don't have to be married for them to use it (support is harder for them to get if you weren't supporting them prior, but restraint and custody are still pretty easy).

Some lawyers apparently make it a standard practice to apply for an ex parte order, because even if the order is overturned later (the husband convinces the court that he's not abusive, probably takes months) the wife has custody of the children, and the court is less likely to move the children later.

Moral of the story: If you're a husband, and you think your wife is considering divorcing you, file first.

Anyways, this is off topic, if you want to keep going, make another topic, and we can talk about the ethics and practicalities of ex parte orders..
 
  • #22
NeoDevin said:
Anyways, this is off topic, if you want to keep going, make another topic, and we can talk about the ethics and practicalities of ex parte orders..

This I have done. Anyway, I would like to say that I have nothing to hide, and never will. If you have something to hide, and for legitimate reasons (and having an affair is NOT a legitimate reason), then why the hell does he have your password in the first place?

Also, remember to use strong passwords. A random combination of letters, numbers, and symbols is best.
 
  • #23
Note: In the poll question, I assumed there was an implicit "without her permission" appended, as I'm sure everyone else did too.
 
  • #24
NeoDevin said:
Note: In the poll question, I assumed there was an implicit "without her permission" appended, as I'm sure everyone else did too.

Nope. I didn't assume a thing. I took the question at face value.
 
  • #25
NeoDevin said:
Note: In the poll question, I assumed there was an implicit "without her permission" appended, as I'm sure everyone else did too.

Yes. It is a good assumption for the sake of argument because everyone likely agrees that, if she gave him her password, there is no discussion to be had. Thus, we only need to discuss the case that has some grey area.
 
  • #26
Ok let's all stop playing stupid. We all have gmail accounts I'm sure. How do you log into your average users account? You click the login box, press the down arrow to see the history of login names, click yours, and the password automatically pops up because it's saved into your history.

$100 says these people were stupid enough to have their browser auto-retrieve their login/password. I can almost guarantee that's what happened and the wife was an idiot and is like "zomg how can he access my account? HE SUPER HACKER!".
 
  • #27
Pengwuino said:
Ok let's all stop playing stupid. We all have gmail accounts I'm sure. How do you log into your average users account? You click the login box, press the down arrow to see the history of login names, click yours, and the password automatically pops up because it's saved into your history.

$100 says these people were stupid enough to have their browser auto-retrieve their login/password. I can almost guarantee that's what happened and the wife was an idiot and is like "zomg how can he access my account? HE SUPER HACKER!".

That's quite possible. It doesn't change the fact that he accessed her email without her permission, which is a felony in the US.

If you leave your (snail) mail sitting on the table, it doesn't make it legal for a guest in your house to open it.

If you leave your front door unlocked, it doesn't make it legal for someone to walk in.
 
  • #28
NeoDevin said:
That's quite possible. It doesn't change the fact that he accessed her email without her permission, which is a felony in the US.

If you leave your (snail) mail sitting on the table, it doesn't make it legal for a guest in your house to open it.

If you leave your front door unlocked, it doesn't make it legal for someone to walk in.

We're not talking about a guest in your house, though. And besides, my father opens email and snail mail marked for my mother all the time (and vice versa). They don't seem to have a problem with it... why would you have a problem with it anyway? It's the person you're sharing your life with. Unless it's illegal for them to see it, what possible purpose could you have to hide?
 
  • #29
Char. Limit said:
It's the person you're sharing your life with. Unless it's illegal for them to see it, what possible purpose could you have to hide?

Planning a surprise party, ordering a gift for them, discussing topics which you know upset them (eg. one partner has decided they are atheist, while the other is devoutly religious, and is seeking advice for how to approach the subject with their spouse, especially true with religions where the punishment for apostasy is excommunication), keeping someone else's secrets (perhaps a friend of yours is planning to divorce their spouse, and their spouse is a good friend of your spouse), planning for divorce...

That's just off the top of my head, I'm sure there are a lot of other reasons for keeping privacy, probably even better ones than I have come up with here. The fact is: Even though you are married, you are still two separate people, with two separate (though connected) lives. Nowhere in the marriage act is your right to privacy implicitly or explicitly given up. If a particular married (or even unmarried) couple decides to share unrestricted access to each other's emails, or even non-symmetric access, that is up to them. The law affords the same right to privacy to married people as it does to unmarried people.

Char. Limit said:
We're not talking about a guest in your house, though. And besides, my father opens email and snail mail marked for my mother all the time (and vice versa). They don't seem to have a problem with it... why would you have a problem with it anyway?

If your father and mother do it all the time without complaint, then they have implied consent (just like my wife doesn't care if I open bills addressed to her).
 
  • #30
A little bit of common sense is called for in this debate. If there is a legal issue concerning access to confidential information - it is clear cut that a spouse has no right to access.

If the communications are strictly personal - it should be a question of trust and respect between the spouses - not a legal matter. This is comparable to a spouse listening on a telephone extension to the other spouses telephone call.
 
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  • #31
Just out of curiosity , how did she know he opened her email account ?

also how do you prove something like this in the court of law (what evidence can be produced that "he" actually opened her email account) ?
 
  • #32
WhoWee said:
If the communications are strictly personal - it should be a question of trust and respect between the spouses - not a legal matter. This is comparable to a spouse listening on a telephone extension to the other spouses telephone call.

It would be a legal matter in any case where the pair is not married. It is against the law to access another person's email without their permission. Do you disagree with this?

If you agree with the above, and cannot point out where in the marriage contract/laws couples (implicitly or explicitly) give up their right to privacy, then the only sensible conclusion is that it is a legal matter in this situation as well.
 
  • #33
Put it this way:

(I think) We all agree that accessing a stranger's email without permission is illegal. If I'm wrong in this assumption, let me know and I'll look up some references.

What about if you're a guest in someone's house, using their computer? Is it still illegal to access their email without permission?

What if it's a friend/relative's email?

A friend/relative with whom you live?

A spouse?

Where is the line drawn? If you claim that the law should not apply in one or more of these situations, support your claim.
 
  • #34
thorium1010 said:
Just out of curiosity , how did she know he opened her email account ?

also how do you prove something like this in the court of law (what evidence can be produced that "he" actually opened her email account) ?

The article doesn't tell us this. Possibly he confronted her with the evidence? If he tried to use the emails as evidence in divorce proceedings, proving he accessed it is easier.
 
  • #35
NeoDevin said:
If you agree with the above, and cannot point out where in the marriage contract/laws couples (implicitly or explicitly) give up their right to privacy, then the only sensible conclusion is that it is a legal matter in this situation as well.

NeoDevin said:
Where is the line drawn?

They did make an explicit verbal and signed pact before witnesses to share their life. That introduces a very large grey area wherein their right to privacy is not clear cut. Imagine a bride calling the cops on her new husband on the first night of their honeymoon for unlawfully breaking and entering.

I'm not saying she does not have a right to privacy, I'm saying it's a grey area. And the grey area favours him, because the burden is on her to prove her case.

Likewise, while the case will likely be dsimissed as domestic, the judge has ruled that, at least she has the right to make her case before the court.
 
  • #36
Well I believe that the term marriage that means the legal union of two persons. I'm pretty sure it's written out in black and white in the US Code sa the legal union between one man and one woman.

Now... legal union in MY mind means that they are legal being bound together as ONE unit. That means no right to privacy from each other.
 
  • #37
DaveC426913 said:
They did make an explicit verbal and signed pact before witnesses to share their life.

To my recollection there is nothing in the marriage laws about sharing information.
 
  • #38
zomgwtf said:
Now... legal union in MY mind means that they are legal being bound together as ONE unit. That means no right to privacy from each other.

Don't suppose you could support this claim?
 
  • #39
NeoDevin said:
Don't suppose you could support this claim?

I don't suppose I really have to since I clearly stated it was from MY mind. But hey... I'll support it by how I came to that conclusion.

Simple: English dictionary.
Legal = legal.
Union = describe unite/unify = to become one.
 
  • #40
NeoDevin said:
To my recollection there is nothing in the marriage laws about sharing information.

Which marriage laws are you talking about, I know in Canada there are a crap load of laws that specifically single out married couples and treat them as one. This to me is clearly defined as requiring information to be shared, or at least viewed as shared by the government.
 
  • #41
Well OK, what about in a marriage when one party takes out a loan and doesn't tell the other?

From what I've read, under certain laws in some states any debt created within the marriage is considered equal to both parties.

Community property states determine that the debt of one spouse is equally the debt of the other. This is true in obtaining debt at the time of marriage. The separate spouse does not have to apply or put her name on anything to be held responsible for the debt of her partner. After divorce, both partners are responsible for this debt individually and it does not transfer to a new partner.

Read more: Will My Wife Inherit My Debt if I Get Remarried? | eHow.com http://www.ehow.com/about_7372814_wife-inherit-debt-remarried_.html#ixzz19QkmHqDN

Now, I don't know how strictly this is applied but I'd say you have no right to privacy with such matters. You don't have the right to rack up debt within the marriage, that your spouse may end up jointly responsible for and keep it private from them. From what I've seen, I could go out and get a bunch of loans with nothing to do with my spouse and yet they can possibly end up as joint debt.

I know this doesn't really help with the "right to read emails" question, but I feel it brings an interesting point in relation to privacy within a marriage.
 
  • #42
NeoDevin said:
To my recollection there is nothing in the marriage laws about sharing information.

mhm. I'll wait patiently while you finish reading that post. :wink:
 
  • #43
NeoDevin said:
It would be a legal matter in any case where the pair is not married. It is against the law to access another person's email without their permission. Do you disagree with this?

If you agree with the above, and cannot point out where in the marriage contract/laws couples (implicitly or explicitly) give up their right to privacy, then the only sensible conclusion is that it is a legal matter in this situation as well.

Perhaps one shouldn't be married to someone they don't trust?
 
  • #44
You can have sex with me, but don't you dare read my email!??

OST, I suppose there could be a fair rationalization. If I send a letter or email to someone, I might have cause to expect privacy between me and that person, and not shared with that person's spouse, whose secretly reading his/her email. So, if I were in his shoes, I might seek permission first.
 
  • #45
I could give a rats *** about my wife's email. I don't want her reading mine! But, realistically, our assets and information are mutual due to our marital contract.
 
  • #46
DaveC426913 said:
mhm. I'll wait patiently while you finish reading that post. :wink:

You mean the part where you make a bunch of unsupported assumptions?
 
  • #47
WhoWee said:
Perhaps one shouldn't be married to someone they don't trust?

I would agree with this. Too bad not everyone considers this before they get married.
 
  • #48
jarednjames said:
You don't have the right to rack up debt within the marriage, that your spouse may end up jointly responsible for and keep it private from them. From what I've seen, I could go out and get a bunch of loans with nothing to do with my spouse and yet they can possibly end up as joint debt.

Actually, you do have that right. Your partner agreed to it when they married you.

Example: My wife went and got approved for a car loan without me present, or my signature on anything. There's no law requiring her to disclose that to me (though financial records will likely be subpoenaed in any divorce proceedings).

We can argue the ethics of keeping certain secrets from your spouse until the cows come home, it doesn't change that every single person still has a right to privacy.
 
  • #49
zomgwtf said:
Which marriage laws are you talking about, I know in Canada there are a crap load of laws that specifically single out married couples and treat them as one. This to me is clearly defined as requiring information to be shared, or at least viewed as shared by the government.

They are treated almost as one for most financial matters. And information shared with a spouse is considered privileged. As far as I'm aware, there is no requirement in the US or Canada to give up your privacy. If there is such a requirement, please cite the appropriate law in either country, or stop claiming it.
 
  • #50
You know there's a multi-quote button, right? It'll save you having to make four posts in a row.
 

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