Here's an example dealing with two clocks. Here we will just 1 light flash to start two clocks. The flash originates at the midpoint between the clocks and starts each clock when the light strikes it.
This is what happens according to someone at rest with respect to the clocks.
Now it doesn't matter whether where you are with respect to these clocks.The light travels outward as a circular front from the point of emission and reaches both clocks at the same moment. As long as you are at rest with respect to them, you will agree that the clocks start at the same time and then keep the same time afterward.
Now here is the same thing as according to someone moving with respect to the Clocks ( or to someone which considers the clocks as moving with respect to themselves, it makes no difference. Keep in mind we are talking about the same clocks and the same flash of light, the only difference is the relative motion between the clocks and the observer.
The light is emitted from the midpoint between the clocks, and due to the invariant nature of the speed of light (it must have a constant value with respect to the observer.) it spreads out at at the same speed in all directions forming a circular front. However, the clocks are seen as moving from left to right and the left clock meets the light before the right clock does. Thus the left clock start running first and then the right clock. After which they run at the same speed, but out of sync. Anyone who has the same relative motion with respect to the clocks will conclude the same thing.
So what you end up with is two frames of reference in motion with respect to each other, one the says the clocks read the same time, and one that says that they do not.