Mister T said:
So, is this the issue? That to determine the simultaneity of two events, you have to wait for the light that brings news of the event(s)?
Draw a Minkowski diagram of the accelerating object. Include the coordinate grid for both S and S'. The lines of equal t are not parallel to the lines of equal t', so a transition from one set of coordinates to the other cannot happen at a single time for more than one of the frames. That's the issue; it isn't consistent to say "the change of simultaneity happens immediately" because any boundary must be non-parallel with lines of now for at least one of the frames.
What you do about it is a separate thing.
There's nothing wrong with using S or S' throughout. It's not terribly natural for the observer since it implies a non-isotropic speed of light before or after the acceleration. But it's only coordinate speed, so that's fine.
There's nothing wrong with selecting some space-like 3-plane as a boundary and using S' on and before that plane and S after. This is what we've been discussing; as noted the only problem is that the boundary doesn't represent a unique time for both frames.
Neither of these is particularly natural. The beauty of Einstein's frames is that they represent your intuitive feeling of what coordinates ought to do in a flat space and do it from straightforward observations. But an infinite rigid system of rods falls apart (literally) if you accelerate. A more flexible approach is just to use radar in a completely naive manner - Dolby and Gull's paper on radar coordinates that I linked upthread has the maths and nice diagrams of the resulting simultaneity planes.
There are infinitely many ways of doing this - it's just a convention and you can use whatever works for you.
Mister T said:
I'm thinking that if both observers are using, say the Einstein convention, then they're using the same convention. It's all semantics, of course, but I can't reckon how you can call it the Einstein convention, it seems it should instead be called the Einstein procedure.
An inertial frame is really a choice of an infinite flock of inertial clocks at rest with respect to each other and a choice of a way to set them all to zero. Given the former, Einstein proposed a way to do the latter, and that is the Einstein clock synchronisation convention (others are available, consult your physicist before use). But the resulting definition of simultaneity depends on your choice of the state of motion of the clocks. So the clock synchronisation convention does not, on its own, define a simultaneity convention and "
the Einstein simultaneity convention" can't be a thing without some further qualification (I'm a bit more confident saying that now that
@PeterDonis seems to be agreeing).
In other threads I have, somewhat self-referentially, referred to the "Einstein simultaneity convention for frame S". What I ought to say is more like "the result of applying Einstein's clock synchronisation convention to clocks in the state of motion I defined to be rest for S". But it's a bit of a mouthful.
I think there is a lot of room for confusion here. But there is an important distinction between a clock synchronisation convention and the resulting simultaneity convention.