Shyan said:
And I didn't understand the train example.what you mean they can pass each other?please explain it more clearly.
thanks
High speed not only changes time (clocks running more slowly), it also changes lengths and distances. If a 100 meter long train is passing you with a speed of 0.6c, it will only be 80 meters long. That's not just some observational effect, it really is shorter. You could for example check it with a sensor that times the passage of the front and back of the train, and multiply that time with its speed. But if you are on the train, you will still measure it as 100 meters because it is not moving relative to you. You would explain the result of the sensor next to the track by saying its clock is running slowly.
If you read that last sentence, you might be tempted to say "see, it was just an observational error after all". But if two 100 meter long trains in opposite directions are approaching an 80 meter section of double track, which would normally be too short for the trains to pass each other, they can make it just fine if they are going at a speed of 0.6c! This would be completely impossible if length contraction was not "real".
The funny thing is what happens when you look at the situation from the point of view of one of the train drivers. He will still experience his own train as being 100 meters long (because it is not moving relative to him), but the section of double track, which was originally 80 meters, is now only 64 meters long because it is moving at 0.6c relative to him! How can he pass the other train then, if his train is so much longer than the double track?
Fortunately for him, the other train that is coming towards him, is traveling at 0.88c (relativistic addition of 0.6c + 0.6c = 0.88c). This means it will have contracted to only 47 meters long. When the front end of the long train is reaching the end of the double track (and the back end is still sticking out on the other side), he just misses the back of the short train. That short train now still has 17 meters to go before its front reaches the other end. When it gets there, it just misses the back end of the long train which enters the double track just in time.
So you see, the two observers agree that the two trains can pass each other safely, but they have a completely different explanation, because they do not agree on simultaneity. For the first observer, the ends of the trains pass each other at exactly the same time on both sides. For the other, they pass each other at one end first, and at the other end later.
For more examples, check out the wikipedia entry for "Relativity", near the bottom under "See also": "Paradoxes"