I'm glad to see this thread because I came here just now to open one just like it. That alien on a bicycle illustration has been haunting me ever since I saw it. Firstly, though a lot of the talk here has been about one actor "observing" the other, the program didn't say anything about observation. The situation was purely about simultaneity, about whether and how different events in different parts of space are simultaneous in time or not. I don't believe observing was spoken about. Also I don't believe anything was spoken about a lag due to the time it takes light to get from one place to the other. To check me, and to give those who didn't see the program an idea of what was said, here is a transcript of that section of the program ([
http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/nova/physics/fabric-of-cosmos.html#fabric-time).(Look for 'transcript'). I will make another comment or two after it.
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... BRIAN GREENE: To see what I mean, think of spacetime as a loaf of bread. Einstein realized that, just as there are different ways to cut a loaf of bread into individual slices, there are different ways to cut spacetime into individual "now" slices. That is, because motion affects the passage of time, someone who is moving will have a different conception of what's happening right now, and so they'll cut the loaf into different now slices. Their slices will be at a different angle.
DAVID KAISER: That person who's moving will, will tilt the knife, will be carving out these slices at a different angle. They won't be parallel to my slices of time.
BRIAN GREENE: To get a feel for the bizarre effect this can have, imagine an alien, here, in a galaxy 10-billion light years from Earth, and way over there, on Earth, the guy at the gas station. Now, if the two are sitting still, not moving in relation to one other, their clocks tick off time at the same rate, and so they share the same now slices, which cut straight across the loaf. But watch what happens if the alien hops on his bike and rides directly away from Earth.
Since motion slows the passage time, their clocks will no longer tick off time at the same rate. And if their clocks no longer agree, their now slices will no longer agree either.
The alien's now slice cuts across the loaf differently. It's angled towards the past. Since the alien is biking at a leisurely pace, his slice is angled to the past by only a miniscule amount. But across such a vast distance, that tiny angle results in a huge difference in time. So what the alien would find on his angled now slice—he considers as happening right now, on Earth—no longer includes our friend at the gas station, or even 40 years earlier when our friend was a baby.
Amazingly, the alien's now slice has swept back through more than 200 years of Earth history and now includes events we consider part of the distant past, like Beethoven finishing his 5th Symphony: 1804 to 1808.
DAVID KAISER: Even at a relatively slow speed we can have, actually, tremendous disagreements on our labeling of "now," what happens at the same time, if we're spread out far enough in space.
BRIAN GREENE: And if that's not strange enough, the direction you move makes a difference, too. Watch what happens when the alien turns around and bikes toward Earth. The alien's new "now slice" is angled to…toward the future, and so it includes events that won't happen on Earth for 200 years: perhaps our friend's great-great-great granddaughter teleporting from Paris to New York.
Once we know that your now can be what I consider the past, or your now can be what I consider the future, and your now is every bit as valid as my now, then we learn that the past must be real, the future must be real. They could be your now. That means past, present, future…all equally real; they all exist.
SEAN CARROLL: If you believe the laws of physics, there's just as much reality to the future and the past as there is to the present moment...
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Now if this is valid and accurate, and not just relativity poetics, I would like to know a little more about how that tiny angle is magnified into 200 years. I mean, I get the general idea of spacetime as a melded whole where a line at an angle across space also cuts across time, sort of like an analytic geometry diagram with x as space and y as time...but it's not something I can quite wrap my brain around, the alien "now" in "my" far future, although I've been trying to for days on end. Can it possibly be true that if the alien bikes a few meters towards me that she hurtles so far into "my" future time just because of that tiny original angle on the diagram? And she has moved only a few seconds in her time but is now simultaneous with people on Earth not born yet? If I walk a few meters I am now in the far future of someone in another star system, who was alive a few of my seconds ago but is now long dead and buried? And if I switch direction and/or the alien switches direction, we are going back and forth in each others' pasts and futures like tennis balls?