Gerenuk said:
Is it possible to simply or rewrite
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\nabla_{\vec{r}}\iiint\frac{f(\vec{r}\,')\mathrm{d}\vec{r}\,'}{4\pi|\vec{r}-\vec{r}\,'|}<br />
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\nabla_{\vec{r}}\times\iiint\frac{\vec{A}(\vec{r}\,')\mathrm{d}\vec{r}\,'}{4\pi|\vec{r}-\vec{r}\,'|}<br />
?
Yes.
What's a good reference (internet, book) to learn this sort of vector analysis?
I would like to know too

So far I've been collecting information from quite random sources.
Those equations look like they could be related to electromagnetism. I'm not sure if this is the case, but anyway, notably large portion of information sources that deal with concrete and useful formulas, are some kind of "methods for physicists" things. I don't know what kind of info you are after. The physicists' stuff isn't rigor enough for my taste at least.
Last month somebody asked about when the order of differentiation and integration can be changed, and I gave a rather detailed answer to it here:
interchanging limits and differentiation/integration If you have not yet got introduced into real analysis, it could be that my post there is too heavy, but anyway... you should now that sometimes you can change the order of integration and differentiation, and sometimes you cannot.
mathman said:
If the function is sufficiently well-behaved, you can put the nabla under the integral sign.
hmhmhmhmhmhmmh... yeeaaah... well I think it is so, but that's a little bit dangerous. For example \nabla^2 would not commute with the integration!
This is a very useful trick, which should be remembered: Sometimes it happens that you have such functions f,g that you cannot change the order of integration and differentiation in the expression
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D_x \int dy\; f(y)g(x-y),<br />
but it turns out that you can change the order, if you first perform a suitable change of variable in the integral, and write it like this
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D_x \int du\; f(x-u)g(u) = \int du\; \big(D_x f(x-u)\big)g(u).<br />
The first expression in the original post can be written like this
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\int d^3r'\;\frac{1}{4\pi} \frac{f(r-r')}{\|r'\|}<br />
and it could be useful when differentiating with respect to the r.
This is all related to a formula
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\nabla_x\cdot\frac{x-x'}{\|x-x'\|^3} = 4\pi\delta^3(x-x').<br />
A one possible more rigor formulation of this would be a formula
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\int d^3x\; \big(\nabla f(x)\big)\cdot \frac{x-x'}{\|x-x'\|^3} = -4\pi f(x')<br />
for suitable test functions f. Some time ago there was a discussion about spins, which slightly got distracted to the use of this delta function formula. I wrote some somewhat rigor stuff back then, so in case you are interested, check the post
#37 from the thread
What exactly is spin? There the delta function formula was calculated with some particular test function f, but the calculation would work out the same way, if a more arbitrary test function f would have been used.