foobar said:
My sister is 2 years older than me and not born in the same place.
Is there a frame where we are born at the same time ?
Here is a spacetime diagram illustrating a scenario that fits your description. Your sister's birth is indicated by the red dot at the bottom of the diagram and her worldline is shown in red progressing upwards with dots marking off one-month increments of her Proper Time, the same as the Coordinate Time since this is her rest frame. Your mother is shown in blue. She takes off from your sister one month after giving birth at a speed of 0.6c. When she reaches her time of 9 months, she gets pregnant and heads back at 0.8c. Note that your sister is 11 months old in her rest frame when your mother turns around. Your mother passes by your sister at her own time of 13.5 months and your sister's time of 18.5 months. After six months of pregnancy, she comes to mutual rest with your sister and three months later delivers you as shown by the black dot near the top of the diagram. Your sister is 2 light-years away at the age of 24 months (according to her rest frame):
Your issue is, why can't we transform this scenario to one where the red dot at the beginning of your mother's blue worldline and the black dot at the end are at the same Coordinate Time:
foobar said:
How does the "causally connected" proviso prevent this?
Your mother's blue worldline is a series of "causally connected" events (dots) representing one month increments of Proper Time for your mother. They will always remain connected in the same order in all other frames although the spacing between the dots can vary but they will never be closer than one month of Coordinate Time.
Let's start by transforming to the rest frame of your mother while she is traveling away from your sister:
Notice that your mother's time in this frame is going faster during the first part of her trip compared to the previous frame and slower during the second part of her trip compared to the previous frame. This is an example of what I said in post #3:
ghwellsjr said:
Pairs of events can be closer together or farther apart in time in different frames but can never reach a zero time interval which is what would have to happen for the two of you to be born at the same time.
Another issue that you raised in this thread is the order that pairs of events can occur in according to different frames. Note that in this frame your mother turns around before your sister reaches 11 months whereas in her rest frame, those two events are simultaneous. Also note in this frame that your sister reaches her second birthday (24 months) before you are born. Finally note that the times on your mother's and your sister's clocks are the same in this frame as they were in the first frame when your mother passes your sister on her way back. That's because it is a single event where they are colocated.
Now let's transform to the frame in which your mother is at rest during the return part of her trip:
This time your sister reaches 11 months before your mother turns around and your sister has her second birthday after you are born but both your sister and your mother are again the same ages when they pass as they were in the two previous frames.
Now to stress the point that no frame will allow both of you to be born at the same time, we first transform to a frame at 99%c:
As you can see, all the events and all the worldlines approach the 45-degree diagonal that represents the speed of light and the Coordinate Time difference between your sister's birth and your birth has gotten quite large going from 24 months to almost 185 months. If we transformed to an even higher speed, we would get even closer to the 45-degree diagonal but the Coordinate Time difference would be even larger so there's no hope increasing the speed of the transformed frame.
What happens if we go the other way to -99%c?
The events all go the other way but still approach the 45-degree diagonal on the other side. It's only slightly different with the Coordinate Time difference between your birth times being just over 155 months.
Well is there any way to decrease the Coordinate Time difference between your birth times below 24 months? Actually there is. If we transform to a speed of -10%c we get:
This is barely an improvement but it's the best we can do with this scenario.
Well, I hope these diagrams help. If you need any more help understanding them, please ask.