Actually, DaleSpam...this isn't always true. What you speak of is true only in oppositely moving waves. However, when they move in the same direction, a flipped E-field results in a flipped B-field, so that 180-degree shifted waves traveling in the same direction would cancel each other out.
as such (with theoretically example)...
This is hard to do, but can be done..sort of as shown in the picture (in theory)
The lasers are the same frequency - the color is just used to differentiate them.
Let mirror 1 be a perfect mirror which is at 45 degrees from the red laser. (again, color is just for the diagram)
Let Mirror B be semi transparent (50:50)
As far as I remember, reflected beams get a 180 degree shift.
So, imagine that, at point B (right before reflection), both beams are in phase.
Vertically at B: blue beam goes through, red beam get reflect + shifted..results, 2 lasers with 180 degree offset with equal power...total destructive interference.
Horizontally at B: Red beam goes through, blue beam gets reflected + 180 degree shift...results, 2 lasers with 180 degree offset with equal power...total destructive interference.
Now, I have heard some argument a while back that in such a case, with such geometry..the light wouldn't go through, or get reflected - it would actually become completely absorbed in the mirror(s) as heat. In terms of conservation of energy, i can believe that (if we assume that the two 180-degree offset same-direction beams don't have any energy), that the energy must stay in the mirrors. However, in terms of intuition, something is wrong. If the energy stays in the mirrors during the perfect geometrical set up...then moving mirror2 up by have of a wavelength would then let the light go through - and all of a sudden the mirrors aren't horrible by absorbing the energy.
I think, a much easier explanation is that it can theoretically (not counting for the difficulty in creating perfect mirrors or lining up everything perfectly), be that coupled off-set like-directional em-waves can exist...they contain energy, but cannot lose in any classical manner. I like this explanation more...not because it's right or wrong, but because it introduces a bunch of interesting concepts like something containing bound energy - an energy which can't normally leave (reminds u of matter by any chance?)