There is a useful formula called the
polarization identity, that gives a simple proof of this theorem. Namely, if ##T## is an operator in a complex inner product space ##H## and ##\mathbf x, \mathbf y\in H##, then $$(T\mathbf x, \mathbf y) = \frac14 \sum_{\alpha: \alpha^4=1} \alpha (T(\mathbf x + \alpha \mathbf y), \mathbf x + \alpha \mathbf y);$$ here ##\alpha## takes 4 values: ##1##, ##-1##, ##i##, ##-i##. The proof is just a straightforward calculation.
This polarization identity immediately implies that if ##(T\mathbf x, \mathbf x)=0## for all ##\mathbf x##, then ##(T\mathbf x, \mathbf y) ## for all ##\mathbf x, \mathbf y\in H## and so ##T=0##.
Another immediate application of the polarization identity is a theorem saying that if for an operator ##T## in a
complex inner product space ##(T\mathbf x , \mathbf x)## is real for all ##\mathbf x##, then ##T## is self-adjoint, ##T=T^*##.
There is also a version of this identity in the real space, but it only works for symmetric operators, namely for symmetric ##T## we have $$ (T\mathbf x,\mathbf y) = \frac14 \Bigl( (T(\mathbf x + \mathbf y), \mathbf x + \mathbf y) - (T(\mathbf x - \mathbf y), \mathbf x -\mathbf y) \Bigr);$$ formally it looks like the complex polarization identity, but only terms with ##\alpha=\pm1## are taken.
Now to the original question:
dyn said:
My question is : the set of complex numbers includes the set of real numbers so if a theorem holds in a complex vector space then how can it not hold in a real vector space ?
Because real numbers form a proper subset of complex numbers, any complex space is a real space as well (if we can multiply vectors by complex numbers, we of course can multiply by reals), but not the other way around. To get a complex space from a real one we need to perform the so-called complexification (think about allowing complex coordinates in ##\mathbb R^n## to get ##\mathbb C^n##). The complexification of a real space is strictly bigger, so the condition ##(T\mathbf x, \mathbf x)=0## for all ##\mathbf x## in the complexification is stronger than the same condition in the original real space.