dbkooper said:
I see no problem (and neither has anyone else except you) with that little coincidence. Also, Bill & Bob could have been any ages at their meeting. Bill could have been 120 years old and Bob only 6 months old. That is, they were 119.5 years apart. Ann would then expect Bill to be 119.5 years older than her when they meet, but this won't happen, so somebody aged differently. Not to mention the simple fact that we could use clocks instead of people, and simply start the 3rd clock when it meets the 2nd, and have the former match the latter without any hint of "coincidence."
There are three distinct inertial frames, each with a person moving with it. Somehow, these mere differences in mere inertial motion makes people age differently. (There is no asymmetry. There is no E-synch. There are no accelerations.)
Let me give you an example with odometers.
1) Given two points on a plane, an odometer run along a straight path between them will read shorter than any other path.
2) There is
nothing 'different' about the working of an odometer along a different path - it is only the path that is different.
3) If you use two odometers along two legs of a triangle rather than one:
a) if you set the second odometer to match the reading of the first at the end of one leg, you are just making the same measurement
as if you turned the original odometer and continued measuring.
b) If you set the second odometer to 0 at the apex of the triangle, you obviously have measured only one leg of the triangle
c) If you set the second odometer to some other number at the apex, you can get any result you want, and this will, of course, say nothing about
the triangle or the triangle inequality.
3)a), being by construction equivalent to using one odometer, is the only one that tells you about the triangle inequality.
In our world, we find that clocks, people, and any systems that undergoing change, behave like odometers, and that the relevant geometry is described by the Minkowski triangle inequality rather than the Euclidean triangle inequality. I don't think there is any non-philosophic reason this is true, any more than if we happened to be 2-d beings living on a sphere, we might be asking (once mathematical abstraction had advanced sufficiently): why is the world described by spherical triangle geometry rather than Euclidean triangle geometry?
[edit: Using odometers as an example, an analog of Newtonian spacetime geometry would be if you had odometers that were all oriented the same way and could not be turned (thus measuring only distance in direction of this preferred orientation). The corresponding triangle equation would be a+b=c, always, rather than only for the colinear case. Again, I don't see, for physics, a meaningful 'why' question as to why the world is not this way.
edit2: An odometer analog of SR a la LET is that there is, e.g. a true north, and that tilted odometers are different, even though no procedure within plane geometry (physics) can find the true north or tell which odometers are tilted. That is, plane geometry is rotation invariant (physics obeys the principle of relativity), and that hides that there 'is' a true north. Clearly, this philosophy cannot give different predictions than any philosophy for which there is no true north. Unless someone finds out you can build a compass.]