There have been limited comparisons, e.g. between a vendor method and CASMO/SIMULATE. The comparisons were done by the vendor and utility and are not available in the public domain. There have been attemps at gamma-scanning, but results have been problematic.
One core simulation (depletion case) can be run on a single workstation, however the set up is complicated since one needs to go backwards as far as possible with respect to the reinsert fuel. Cores simulations can be run in octant, quadrant or full core depending on the assymetries being modeled. A typical 4-loop PWR (193 assy) running 17x17 fuel contains 50952 fuel rods, and they are typical nodal with 24 x 6'' (15.24 cm) axial nodes, or greater numbers if axial zoning of burnable absorbers are used with blankets of more than 6''.
Some codes are available through IAEA or universities, but usually one must register and pay a fee. Access to source code is restricted.
Application of CFD in the nuclear industry is relatively recent, and the two main codes are CFX and Star-CD. AFAIK, no one has integrated numerical reactor simulators with a CFD code. The core simulators basically contain relatively simple thermal hydraulic models which provide coolant temperature, density and void coefficients. Depletion calculations presume steady-state, although there have been some attempts to look in more detail at downpowers and power ascensions (and associated Xe-swings), control blade history effects, and various transients, e.g. rod-drop or rod-ejection accident.