mathman said:
I do not claim the frame change is responsible for anything. My point is that there is a difference between the stay at home and traveler and the difference in time can be calculated from the frame changes.
I agree with this answer if one considers the frame changes at the turn around phase. In the initial acceleration phase, the traveling twin also changes frames (infinitely many until he reaches his final velocity), but their clocks remain synced locally when considering an almost instantaneous acceleration where the change in the x and t positions are negligible small
If you watch this video (the video contains links to the software, if you want to run this yourself)
You can see how in the left diagram, representing the say at home twin, the white clock, representing a clock that travels with the traveling twin, is running slower in respect to the cyan coloured clock, representing a clock that resides with the stay at home twin.
The white clock ALWAYS runs slower in all stages (stage 1 to 6) in the case of the left diagram compared to the cyan clock.
In the right diagram, you can see the blue clock, representing the stay at home twin's local clock, measured from the perspective of the traveling twin, running slower up until stage 2. Up until stage 2 the scenario is completely symmetric. Basically both could consider themselves the "stay at home twin". Both measure each others' clocks to run slower.
It is stage 3 and 4, the stage in which the traveling twin accelerates back towards the stay at home twin, in which the traveling twin measures the blue clock to speed up and overtake his own (white clock).
So yes, it is the frame changes at stage 3 and 4(the acceleration phase back towards earth) which result in the traveling twin's clock to display a lesser clock count, and it is only stage 3 and 4 in which the traveling twin measures the stay at home's clock to run _faster_. At all other stages both measure/observe each other's clocks to run slower by the same factor.
To create those two diagrams, only the Lorentz transformation formulas were used, mapping events happening at x,t on the left diagram to x',t' on the right diagram and vice versa.
The Lorentz transformation formulas as well as the time dilation and length contraction formulas can all be derived mathematically from just the two basic postulates of SR.
So what you see in this video is a result of those two postulates.There is much more to this however, especially when it comes to understanding where the "now" is for each of the twins in respect to the other. When one twin at x,t, being his "now"(the present), asks "what is the other twin doing right _now_"
By analysis of the diagrams, it certainly does not seem to be located in what we call simultaneous or the simultaneity axis.
Hence, the blue clock, the traveling twin interprets as the stay at home clock he calculates/measures(observes) is not really the "now" of the stay at home twin.
Anyway, i already took this too far considering the scope of the question, so i will leave it at that.