To calculate the acceleration of a particle in a parallel plate capacitor, the approach using the equation v_f^2 = v_i^2 + 2ad is incorrect due to the assumption of constant acceleration. Instead, the relationship qE = ma should be used, where E is the electric field between the plates. The electric field can be determined using the expression E = 2mg/q, where m is the mass of the droplet and g is the acceleration due to gravity. A free body diagram (FBD) helps clarify the forces acting on the droplet, revealing that the force due to the electric field equals the sum of gravitational and air friction forces. This method provides a more accurate calculation of the particle's acceleration in the capacitor.