You can't actually "ground it"...in the ground.
In a residential, commercial or industrial site there are certainly grounds earthed into the earth. The power station has grounds earthed in it's transformers, so all grounds essentially return to their nearest transformer. Hence we must "earth" the grounds so they can get to the "earthed" grounds of it's near transformer supply.
Your phone or electronics are different because they don't have an AC power plant powering them...
They instead use a battery. A DC battery.
Take your car for instance. The entire chasis is grounded to the battery. If you take any 12 volt load and touch its positive terminal to the battery, you can take it's negative terminal and touch it anywhere on the frame. The load will then have current through it. To avoid any short circuits, the car uses a fuse box. If hot touches ground anywhere, this will also short the fuse.
Your phone and small electronics work the same way. The metal chassis is grounded, little fuse box in there somewhere, hot to negative or hot to ground you get 5 volts DC in many cases. It's grounded, just not into the Earth. You need to ground to your power supply inside of your hand held DC electronic device, not the Earth.
So in summary, you need to consider where your supply voltage comes from. (yes, your phone plugs into the wall, but what actually powers the phone comes from the small battery inside...not the wall socket. The wall socket does however charge the battery with transformer and full wave recitifier...or other method perhaps)
Unfortunately, no one has invented a AC battery yet. But even if they did, you will still need to ground to the inside of your electronic hand held device.